How to Deal when Your Man is Ignoring You ...

By Melissa • Oct 27, 2017

No one likes to be ignored. The feeling is even worse when it comes from someone you love or care deeply about. Unfortunately, it’s not uncommon for women to feel ignored by their men. What are you to do if your man isn’t giving you the attention you need and deserve? Here are some helpful tips on how to handle when your man ignores you.

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1. Talk to Him

Of course, this is easier said than done, right? How do you talk to someone that is ignoring you? But wait until you have his attention and let him know how his behavior is making you feel. Don’t accuse him of anything, just be honest about your feelings.

2. Ask if You Can Help

Maybe there is something going on with your man that you really aren’t aware of. Maybe he is upset by something or is having some sort of problem at work that he is trying to process. Whatever the case is, speak to him and show your sincere concern for his behavior and offer your help and support.

3. Back off

Sometimes men just need a moment alone. If that’s the case then let your man know you are here for him, but right now you are going to give him some space. Tell him to call you or come get you when he is ready for your company.

4. Don’t Jump to Conclusions

Just because you aren’t getting through to him doesn’t mean he is out doing wrong. If you’ve not known him to cheat in the past then give him the benefit of the doubt for now, but keep your eyes open for more questionable behavior or lies.

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5. Give Him an out

Unfortunately, your man may be ignoring you because he just isn’t interested anymore and he is avoiding hurting your feelings. I know it sucks, but if someone doesn’t want to be with you then staying together isn’t the right thing. If he won’t say it, maybe it’s time you say it.

6. Make Other Plans

So your man wants to stay in alone and be a grump, that doesn’t mean you have to stay in with him and stare at a wall together. Get your girls together and have a little night out with your besties. You deserve some fun.

7. Give Him Time

If you man really is processing some sort of internal emotions then you are just going to have to give him time. Show your support and concern, but avoid smothering him. Remind him that you care and you're there whenever he wants to talk but try to not push the issue. In the meantime, find something else to occupy your time.

Being ignored stinks. I am sure we can all agree on that. While our men may ignore us for many reasons, we can’t always assume the worst. Give it time and feel him out before you start thinking he is cheating or ready to break up. How do you handle things when your man ignores you?

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  • Jody

    2015-09-18T12:27:35.170Z

    Sometimes his ignorance is weakness and this is considered misbehavior
  • Katrina

    2015-09-18T11:51:52.528Z

    I'm going through the same thing right now. Some of the suggestions work, but sometimes my man just won't budge
  • peony

    2015-09-19T11:38:10.712Z

    @Brimom well I just @ritchie v since he made clear that he is a man but no joy so maybe men don't have a clue either...
  • Lunalaft

    2015-09-19T00:58:08.385Z

    Ritchie wants us to bash men??? Huh? Lol I hate getting ignored sooooooo much. Most men are such jerks and put very little into the relationship when women try so hard. #dontsay #notallmen #omgno
  • cara

    2016-10-27T15:10:13.557Z

    Men always complain about women saying 'I'm fine' when something is wrong or has upset them and they don't like hints yet they seem to think it's ok to do this to women, communication works both ways, if you want a bit of space just say, Be a grownup!
  • 6Gyal

    2016-10-27T03:13:04.401Z

    Petty arguments are the worst
  • 2015-09-18T20:16:02.491Z

    Or just kick him out.
  • Girly_xo

    2016-10-27T08:20:58.983Z

    @Brimom hey girl I know its hard but you gotta keep your head up, I think the best thing is to sit down and talk with him, have a confession time where you guys say everything you need to say to let everything out
  • Ritchie

    2015-09-18T21:22:23.531Z

    Im a man, start bashin rather than growing and trying to understand why we are like that.
  • Lunalaft

    2015-09-19T00:59:30.430Z

    But hey shoutout to the good guys who get lost in the crowd of suckiness! We love you and will find you and marry you
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