A person once told me, "You are not going to catch a fish in a swamp like this". Learn how to catch a fish you want by watching this video...
You have to step out of your comfort zone and go to functions where men are going to be that FIT your desires. Want a certain type of fish? Then, go where that type of fish is swimming!
How about the woman determined to marry a doctor? His example of the woman driving to the local hospital and eating hospital food every day for lunch in order to catch a doctor is a superb example. She DID end up meeting a doctor and DID marry him!
Attend functions, classes,.... any place where your type of fish is swimming! Just get yourself out there!
I hope you have found this video to be helpful. Don't make it harder than it is!