There are so many problems with playing hard to get. You just don't want to even go there. Many people will tell you over and over that playing hard to get is important when you’re dating someone new. You don’t want to look like a desperate young girl waiting to be fallen in love with. So, you choose to play hard to get in order to show him that you are better than all those other girls out there. This just doesn't work. Below are 5 reasons why you shouldn't play hard to get.
1. Attract the Wrong Guy
One of the biggest problems with playing hard to get is the kind of man you attract. The hard to get game doesn’t make a guy like you, it gets him to chase you. You become his competitor and his focus becomes showing you that he can win your heart instead of really falling in love with you. He’ll love the chase and not you. His ego takes the lead and he begins wanting to prove that he can be with you, rather than actually wanting to be with you.