7 Helpful Tips on How to Deal with a Mean Boyfriend ...

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If you are looking for suggestions on how to deal with a mean boyfriend, look no further;

just read this little article and find out what you can do to help him calm down.

Even though most of the time your loved one is one of the sweetest guys ever, there are times when he is grumpy and even mean to you just because he woke up on the wrong side of the bed.

I know nothing gives him the right to treat you this way, but you must admit that even you have days when you are angry for no reason and when you are mean with the ones around you.

Here are a few very helpful tips on how to deal with a mean boyfriend:2

1. Help Him Recognize That He is Being Mean

One of the first things you should do if you want to learn how to deal with a mean boyfriend is to simply help him recognize that he is being mean to you.

You can achieve that by saying calmly that what he said is really rude and that his mean words really hurt your feelings.2

Sometimes they might not even realize that their behavior is hurting you, and that’s why it’s good to just point that out to them.

Give Him Some Space

Comments:

Gaby
What I got from this article is if your boyfriend is in a funk, so he's not always mean or grumpy he just suddenly got into a pattern. In which case I don't see why you would have to break up right off the bat. I'm mean to my boyfriend too, without meaning to be, and I'm sorry that I am and glad he doesn't break up with me everytime I do something dumb or mean. If the boyfriend were abusive then yes leave him, but why are people so quick to just dump people rather than work on the issues nowadays?
Queenz
Nice 😊
CammieRountree
Dump him. Immediately. If someone treats you bad they have issues and life is too short to deal with any abuse. Even emotional.
Zanna
Keep this saying in mind, " the first time someone shows you who they are, believe them!" I think that's from Maya Angelou!
Zanna
Don't put too much effort into trying to change a guy. If he can't see that he's acting poorly, actively working to change his behavior, give it up!
Meena
Yesterday I saw this pretty lady running behind her rowdy boyfriend on the road begging him to stop and he just pushed her and used filthy words at her and I was thinking why is she even running after him when she clearly deserves better and could do a lot better too! This article reminds me of ppl like her...
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