Some of us aren't afraid to walk up to boys and flirt with them--we're just too lazy to do so. However, even the laziest ladies can crave companionship. If you want to land a boyfriend, but aren't willing to put in all of your effort, you can follow the lazy girl's guide to getting a boyfriend:
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1. Use Dating Websites
If you're antisocial and don't feel like leaving the house in order to flirt, you can join dating websites. Of course, if you don't want to join Tinder, which is mostly focused on finding someone to sleep with, you can try using Tumblr. It's certainly not a dating website, but it'll help you make friends with similar interests. You never know, you could find your soulmate by blogging.
2. Talk over Skype
Once you find a boy you're interested in, you don't have to invite him over. If you do, then you'll have to clean your room and spruce yourself up. Instead, you can Skype with him in order to feel like he's in the room with you. Then you only have to clean the section of the room the camera can see and you can keep on your pajama pants. Even though you're talking over technology, it'll help you build a connection faster than texting or Facebook messaging would.
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3. Have Netflix Dates
When you finally find the energy to clean up your house, you can invite your crush over to watch Netflix. That way, you won't have to think of the perfect restaurant to visit or the perfect dress to wear. Keeping it casual will make him see you as a carefree girl that doesn't mind lounging around. Plus, who doesn't love Netflix?
4. Date the Boys You Already Know
You don't have to go out of your way to find men to date. Boys are all around you at work and at school. If you're not the bar hopping type, then you should chat up the guys that are already in your life. There's no reason to go out and search for Mr. Right when he could be right under your nose.
5. Wear a Dress
Women wearing dresses look sexy and classy, but it actually takes less effort to pick out a dress to wear than to pick out a shirt and pair of jeans to wear. Think about it: a dress is one piece, so you won't have to waste time trying to find something to match it. You slip on the one item and you're good to go.
6. Use Your Eyes to Flirt
If you're too lazy to walk up to a man and start a conversation, you can use your eyes to flirt with him. Glance at him and glance away, look him up and down, and make it clear that you're interested. Then he should do most of the work and approach you.
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Eye contact can be powerfully suggestive and incredibly simple as a flirting technique. Lock eyes for a brief moment, let a coy smile play on your lips, and resist the urge to look back too quickly. This fleeting connection can send a rush of intrigue his way, hinting at a depth of interest without saying a word. If done correctly, it's like a silent invitation for him to make his move, while you effortlessly maintain your allure from across the room.
7. Use Movie Lines
If you think you're horrible at flirting, think again. Instead of using your own lines, you can just steal romantic quotes from movies. If your man doesn't realize, then you'll sound clever. If he does realize, then it means he has good taste in films and you have something in common. It's a win-win.
Once you're in a serious relationship, you're going to have to put in effort to make it last. But if you're in a casual relationship just for the fun of it, these tips should pay off. What other pieces of advice do you have for getting a boyfriend?
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Jackie: I went online to eharmony. I found a 60/. off coupon for 1 or 3 months. It's been awhile, but you can find some type of coupon. I was matches rt away with 8 men. The 1st guy I went out with (I also was his first online date) hit it off great. On our second date, we made it official. I know that seems fast, but, when you know, you just KNOW! We've been together for a year and a half. Engaged for 6 months. He's a wonderful guy. Generous, my heart engagement ring is huge, which is not the most important thing. I always dated these loser guys. One guy didn't have a steady job, one couldn't drive, one made me pay for dinner, one just wanted sex, ect.ect.. I gave it a chance and let eharmony pair me up with someone who is extremely compatible!
Եհҽ: If he looks good.
Alyx: With online dating, don't go for free if you want a relationship. My mom did online dating for like 4 years, and it was rarely anyone wanting a relationship, just sex or casual dating. But a friend of hers that she met through online dating but ended being just friends with got married a few years ago, and he was saying once he switched to paying (even the 1$ a month ones), it was people much more interested in relationships, and he didn't nor did his now wife run into anybody who wanted just sex. You get more people who are serious about wanting to find a companion rather than just casual stuff. My mom tried it on and off for a few years and noticed a huge difference, instead of 3-4 dates a month it became 3-4 dates a week. Things got busy and she never found someone who she could be with for more than a year, but she started having relationships rather than "well I met this guy but he was a pig so I'll never see him again". As long as you're safe about it, and always go to a public place the first 3 times you see them, and ignore the creeps, online dating can be great.
Եհҽ: Yea I guess u r right but my friend had this really bad experience. @taylor
Mel: Has anyone tried the online dating site Okcupid? Does it work to really find someone who wants something serious and not casual? I've just tried and had like only 4 dates with a guy..Before I was in POF (plenty of fish) I disabled my account from there because the guys seem they only wanted sex or casual dating..I only had like 2 dates with 2 guys... Did anyone really find something serious in these two free dating sites?
Jackie: Eharmony really works. I have 4 girlfriends that met their matches too. 2 are married& 2 are STILL dating/engaged. It's a site for ppl who want to get serious with someone. It might take a few bad dates to get to your prince.
Taylor: @queen why not? Tons of people use them and have their partner using them. You just have to be safe using them and know how to read between the lines when viewing a profile (like avoid the guy with the shirtless photo - most likely a meathead lol)
karen: Xxxxxx
Mel: This article should be named the guide ways to find a guy instead of lazy.. Cuz I ain't lazy at all it's just I prefer the guy to do the initiative and talk to a girl first..
Amarys: Netflix and chill, lol
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