12 Things Men Like in Women More Than Good Looks …

12 Things Men Like in Women More Than Good Looks …

Things Men Like in Women often have nothing to do with looks, bra size or any of the standard things we think men fall for. In fact, although physical appearance is the first thing they notice (don’t we all?), when it comes to settling down it often comes in last and counts the least. Believe it or not, there are at least 12 completely non-physical things men like in women and I’m pretty sure your boyfriend could list many more and confirm that your gorgeous physique, beautiful eyes and soft lips are not the only things that made him fall head over heels for you! Interested to learn more about those other things men like in women? Well, read carefully because every man would love to be with a woman who is…

1. A Good Listener

Most men appreciate women who are able to just listen – no “ I told you so” lines, no lectures, tips or comments regarding what you would do if you were in his place. You know… just sitting, listening (and I mean REALLY listening)… just showing that you care. Oh, and that involves being patient as well, understanding that most men need to “process” their problems before they can talk about them and learning to say, “Okay, baby, whenever you want to talk about it – I’m here for you”.

2. Spontaneous

Being able to “go with the flow” is one of the things men like in women the most and I must admit I’m still not as nearly as spontaneous as my fiancé would like me to be although I’m working on it. Most of our men would never sing in front of us (professional singers excluded) but they just love to hear us sing ( even if it sounds more like howling), they love to see us dance around the house, they will gladly throw us a surprise if they know the reaction would be positive and they love to see us being us (even if it involves a certain dose of silliness).

3. A Good Driver

Although our men often complain about female drivers, most of them would agree driving skills are a must for a modern woman. But, some of them are ready to do go even further and admit they LOVE a woman who can make that engine purr like an overgrown kitten! Shocking? Nah, not really!

18 responses
  1. kitten says:

    i have a crush and he looks beyond how good of a driver i am!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


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  2. mariiiii says:

    omg i love an atrrack tive guys with abbb and everythinh lmao


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  4. sandra says:

    these are all good facts


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  5. Anonymous says:

    Hm. Well as a man, I have to say that all of these things are completely accurate.


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  6. Anonymous says:

    Hi, well I was wondering if you could give me some edvice, cause I like a guy in my hockey team I think he likes me because he keeps on staring at me…etc, but how d I really know if he is interested???


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    • Anonymous says:

      *do I really…


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  7. AsianBeauty says:

    I dont feel like those criterias really matter to high school guys. I think that most of them would have chosen a really gorgeous girl even if she is dumb…I guess that seeing beyond a good look comes with maturity !


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    • AsianBeauty says:

      I meant *I dont feel THAT* sorry for the mistake im French ahahah x)


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  8. Anonymous says:

    hi,…this list includes everything a guy wants in a girl ,gr8 list i must say.. and i think some guys also like child like innocenct and cute girl ,so i’ll add on “child like innocence”…but that doesn’t mean behave like an immature kid all time..instead show him your genuine cute ness and innocence…he’ll definitely like it.. (:

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  9. Ali says:

    i love this list I think i do almost everything on this list but i am not sure. i really like a guy and i am just always myself, but he hasnt asked me out. my friends say that he likes me, but he is just really nerveous around girls

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  10. Anonymous says:

    Hi there’s this guy in my class (he is cute) but we just stare at each other (but we really don’t like each other) he did say I looked cute with my glasses but when i’m doing my work he glances at me for a short time when he does his work I glance at him for a short time, does that mean anything? please tell me what should i say & do next time i see him. PLEASE HELP ME. :)

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    • Ali says:

      I have to say, the same exact thing happened to me, but i have a HUGE crush on him. if he looks at you, just stare right back. Not creepy stalker stare, but a nice, “Hey im checking you out” stare. If he holds eye contact, give him a nice smile. Not a filrty smile, just a “hey, im smiling becasue im happy” one. Chances are, hell smile right back! i hope this works and i know that i am not a team member, but i love to give advice! :)

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    • Sheila says:

      I have to half disagree with you Nailah,
      The writer isn’t saying that it’s wrong to look good or anything of that sort. In fact right at the beginning, she says that “physical appearance is the first thing they notice” which is true. But when it comes to a serious relationship, people(both men and women) want more than just good looks and this is merely a list of what “more” is.

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  12. Olga Kaushan says:

    This is an amazing list! I will only add “positive and cheerful”. From my experience guys love girls who exude happiness.

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    • Sheila says:

      Yes! In Audrey Hepburn’s words, “Happy girls are the prettiest!” :)

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