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Learning a few ways to deal with your boyfriend’s female friends can help you eliminate feelings of jealousy and insecurity.

Forbidding your boyfriend from having female friends isn’t the answer because he will most likely secretly resent that you are trying to control his friendships.

If you are facing this relationship dilemma, I’m going to share 7 ways to deal with your boyfriend's female friends.

1. Become Allies

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A major reason why you are jealous over his female friends is that you fear he will leave you for one of them.

One of the ways to deal with your boyfriend’s female friends is to become their ally.

To calm these fears, get to know each of them on a one-on-one basis.

Invite her to have brunch or dinner with you.

Hang out Together

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Merarri Martinez
@Kaitlynn, have you told him that this friendship bothers you?
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@Tara, Try it and report back to the AWS girls!
Merarri Martinez
@Nana, I don't know of any girl that would be comfortable with their man staying friends with a girl he slept with when they were broken up. So NO you aren't crazy. If its making you uncomfortable, he needs to cut ties with her.
Merarri Martinez
@Anmarie, Yes he should be very open about his female friends. It's a major red flag if he wants to keep them hidden from you.
Merarri Martinez
@Vanna, Why does he get angry? Does he have something to hide?
Merarri Martinez
@KaraVeronica, Glad to hear that your man is respecting your feelings and acting accordingly.
Merarri Martinez
It depends how long they were together and what kind of feelings remain now. If they have both moved on, there is nothing wrong with being friends with an ex. But its your relationship so the two of you have to figure out the rules that work for both of you!
Merarri Martinez
@Roma, No way I would not put up with your husband's behavior!! That is ridiculous-I swear I got mad on your behalf just by reading your comment..This woman is trying to wedge herself in your marriage and from the sounds of it is trying to get closer to your hubby. Your husband should put your feelings above any other female friend. If it's making you uncomfortable, he has to cut ties with her.
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