If you've been sleeping with your man for so long that you're starting to get bored, there's an easy fix. You two can just play pretend. Get some costumes and a fake accent and you're ready to go. Here are a few classic role playing ideas to help long-term couples spice things up in the bedroom:
1. Cop
One of you can pretend you're the cop, who has just pulled over the other person. See if you can get out of the ticket by using your body.
2. Teacher
One of you can pretend to be the teacher, who just gave out a bad grade, and the other can play the student, who's trying to raise their grade in any way they can. Think of Ezra and Aria.
3. Maid
One of you can be he maid, who's ready to clean the entire house. The other can be the homeowner, who's feeling a little lonely and wants some company.
4. Repairman
One of you can pretend to be the repairman, who's coming in to fix the washer and dryer. Then you two can end up having sex on top of that washer and dryer.
5. Fireman
One of you can pretend to be a fireman, who's coming over to save the day.
6. Stripper
One of you can do a strip tease or give a lap dance. Then you can transition into having sex.
7. Rock Star
One of you can pretend to be a famous rock star who's on tour, and the other can pretend to be a groupie who's been dying to have sex with the celebrity.
8. Masseuse
One of you can pretend to be a masseuse and give the other person a back rub. Of course, that back rub will turn into something slightly inappropriate.
9. Favorite Tv Character
Pick a couple you love from a TV show and then pretend to be them!
10. Pool Boy
One of you can go outside and clean the pool. You might even want to make out while you're in the water together.
11. Strangers
You can pretend that you don't know each other and are meeting each other for the first time. Take on entirely new identities. You can be anyone you'd like.
12. Bartender
One of you can pretend to be a bartender, who's willing to listen to all of the other person's problems--and then is willing to fix those problems with sex.
13. Nurse
One of you can pretend to be a nurse, who has to give the other person a sponge bath to make them feel better.
14. Hitch Hiker
One of you can pretend to be a hitch hiker, who's willing to do whatever it takes to get a ride out of town.
15. Robot
One of you can pretend to be a robot, who's programmed to obey orders, which means it has to listen to everything the other person says.
16. Vampire
One of you can pretend to be a vampire, who's looking for someone to spend the res of its eternal life with.
17. Soldier
One of you can pretend to be a soldier, who's only going to be home for a brief time and is looking for a fling.
Now you'll be able to spice things up in the bedroom! What other role play ideas can you think of?
Frequently Asked Questions
- What are role playing ideas for couples?
- Role playing ideas for couples are different scenarios and characters they can act out to add excitement and novelty to their relationship.
- Can role playing help in long-term relationships?
- Yes, role playing can help long-term relationships by breaking the routine and sparking new interest and passion between partners.
- Do you need costumes for role playing?
- Costumes can enhance the experience but aren't necessary. You can role play with just your imagination and maybe a few simple props.
- What if I feel silly while role playing?
- Feeling silly is normal at first. Start with something simple and communicate with your partner to ensure you both feel comfortable.
- Is consent important in role playing?
- Yes, consent is very important. Both partners should agree on the scenario and their roles, and feel safe to stop the role play at any time.
- How do we choose a role play idea?
- Discuss fantasies and interests with your partner, choose something that excites both of you, and that you feel comfortable trying.
- Can role playing improve communication in a relationship?
- Role playing can improve communication as it requires partners to discuss their desires and boundaries openly.
- What are some simple role playing scenarios?
- Simple scenarios include pretending to be strangers who meet at a bar, a doctor and patient, or a boss and secretary.
- How do we get started with role playing?
- You can start by discussing your fantasies, setting clear boundaries, and perhaps planning a specific time and place to begin your role play.
- Is role playing a common practice among couples?
- Yes, many couples experiment with role playing to explore fantasies and keep their romantic life exciting.