Whether you are aware of body language signs or not, they are a scientifically proven part of communication process. When suddenly words become chaotic and hard to understand, supporting body movements help us express ourselves better.
However, body sings are not always direct, they might send mixed signals depending on the occasion, setting, health issues, nervousness and most importantly, peculiarities of the person next to you.
Taking that into account, here are the five body language signs that will turn you into a human lie detector and tell what's truly on his mind.
Often called the Duchenne smile, after the neurologist who identified it, this true grin involves the simultaneous contraction of two facial muscles: the zygomatic major (pulling up the corners of the lips) and the orbicularis oculi (raising the cheekbones and producing crow's feet around the eyes). It's the latter that's hard to imitate. So watch for the crinkles at the corners of his eyes. They're the silent giveaway of his genuine happiness to be around you. And remember, the speed of his smile matters, too—a slow spread is a sign he's truly delighted.
If he leans forward with his shoulders directed towards you, he's signaling engagement and a desire to be closer. On the other hand, crossed arms might suggest he's setting a barrier or feeling defensive. Watch for his legs too; if they are pointing in your direction, it's as if his subconscious is aligning him with his interest – you. But if you notice him constantly shifting or his feet are angled away, he may be preparing for a quick escape, indicating a lack of genuine interest or comfort in the current interaction.
His gesturing legs give us a subtle, yet telling story. A nervous shuffle or a tight interlocking might suggest he’s holding back or uneasy. And what about the far-fetched though intriguing idea of leg mirroring? Well, it’s like a dance beneath the table. If his knees subtly mimic yours, it's a silent, flirty mimicry, signaling he’s in sync with you. Watch this space though—too much jigging might mean he’s more interested in hitting the dance floor or escaping for fresh air than engaging in heart-to-heart talks.
Gazing intently can signify genuine interest, but a furtive glance might suggest discomfort or a desire to mask true emotions. It's important to distinguish between nervous blinking and the natural eye movement that accompanies thoughtful conversation. Also, pay attention to dilated pupils, which can indicate a strong emotional response – often attraction – due to increased light or the positive excitement of being near someone special. However, context is key; darker environments will naturally cause pupil dilation, so consider the lighting before jumping to conclusions. Trust your instincts; they're usually right.
