Looking for signs your roommate is interested in you can be extremely hard to see! You live with them, how are you supposed to know what signs your roommate is interested in you to look for? I know if I lived with a roommate, I'd be clueless as to what to look for! So, with that said, I've got all of the signs here, all of the top ways that you'll be able to tell if your roommate wants to be more than just a roommate!
1. Flirting
Do they constantly flirt with you? Guy or girl, do you constantly feel like they are flirting with you? Do they pull the coy, shy little touching and the smiles? It's all about the signs girls and this is one of the signs your roommate is interested in you. After all, why flirt if you aren't interested?
2. Subtle Touches
Small, soft little brushes of shoulders or even just gripping you when you are laughing or having a good time can all be signs that your roommate is into you – but you might not know it. Does your roommate constantly reach out and find some type of way to touch you? Does he or she find some way to be close to you?
3. Joking around
There are ways that you can joke around that aren't flirting and aren't at all signs that your roommate is into you, but if they are constantly joking around, constantly trying to make you laugh and constantly trying to poke some fun at you, that's definitely a sign that your roommate is into you! Who knows, maybe you are into them too!
4. There is Tension
Is there a fine line of tension? Sexual tension maybe between the both of you? That could definitely be a sign that he is into you! Who knows, maybe he feels the tension too. Maybe he feels that there is some bit of chemistry between the two of you, but you just haven't acted on it yet.
5. They Are Constantly Coming into Your Room
Are they constantly trying to get into your room? Are they constantly trying to hang out with you wherever you are? This could absolutely be a sign that they are totally into you! Just them being close to you all of the time can be something to watch out for!
6. They Are Always Trying to Get into Your Circle of Friends
Does your roommate try to worm his or her way into your circle of friends? When your friends come over, does your roommate make it a point to hang out with the entire lot of you? That's definitely a sign that they like you in a way that is more than just roommates!
7. Wants to Hang out All of the Time
Finally, does your roommate constantly want to hang out? Not just with your circle of friends, but also with you alone? Does he or she constantly want to tag along with you no matter where you are? Even just a trip to the grocery store? That's a sign! After all, who would want to hang around with you all of the time unless you are into them?
So girls, there you have it! All of my signs that your roommate is interested in you! Does your roommate display any of these signs? Share!
Frequently Asked Questions
- How can I tell if my roommate is interested in me?
- Look for signs like extra attention, physical touch more often than usual, they make time for you, and show care about your feelings and interests. They might also become jealous when you talk about dates with other people.
- What should I do if I think my roommate likes me but I'm not sure?
- Try to observe their behavior for more signs of interest. You can also bring up topics about relationships and see how they react or even gently ask them about their feelings in a casual, open conversation.
- Is it okay to ask my roommate directly if they have feelings for me?
- Yes, it's okay to ask, but be sensitive. Make sure it's a private and comfortable setting, and be prepared for any answer. Be clear about your own feelings and respectful of theirs.
- My roommate is showing signs of interest, but what if they're just being friendly?
- Sometimes friendliness can be mistaken for romantic interest. Consider the consistency and intensity of their actions, and if you're still unsure, it might be helpful to talk about it openly with your roommate.
- How can I make sure I don't ruin the roommate relationship if I find out they're interested in me?
- Communication is key. Be honest, kind, and considerate of each other's feelings. Setting clear boundaries and respecting each other's space can help maintain a healthy roommate relationship, regardless of romantic feelings.