You don’t have to dress sexy or vampish to capture a man’s heart. Cuteness is attractive too. You can make a man go weak at the knees with some sweet and feminine and cute flirting tricks.
1 Tone down the Sexiness
Cute and sexy are two different things, so if cute is what you are going for, try to tone down your innate sexiness and save it for the appropriate times!
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2 Wear Pastels
Pastel tones are an effective way to get your skin tone to stand out, and less bold colors also help to enhance your eyes.
3 Move around
Standing with all your weight on one hip can look like you are bored. To show him you’re interested shift your weight from one foot to the other every now and then.
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Keeping your body language dynamic demonstrates vivacity and can capture his attention. A playful sway or a gentle shuffle can add a flirty dimension to your conversation, signaling interest without saying a word. It's the subtle dance of attraction—your movements can weave a story of their own. Just remember to maintain a comfortable flow, because if it’s too orchestrated, it might come off as anxious rather than alluring. Let your movements be as effortlessly captivating as your smile, inviting him into a space where both your energies can playfully mingle.
4 Play with Your Hair
Playing with your hair whilst talking to him is a really cute action. He’ll notice it straight away and it can be interpreted as a sign of interest.
5 Light Makeup
When it comes to makeup, keep things toned down and natural looking. A cute look is different to a fierce ‘going out’ look, and it’s important that you know the difference.
6 Be Soft Spoken
Don’t be too abrasive and loud. By speaking softly, you are demanding that he pay more attention to you, and he might have to come in a little closer!
7 Be Fun
Keeping a fun and positive attitude when you are around him will come across as super cute, and he’ll want to spend more time with you.
8 Smile!
A girl’s smile can be her best feature, so make sure to show him you like him by showing your pearly whites.
9 Share the Conversation
Try not to dominate conversation or talk about yourself all the time. Having a balanced conversation is key to striking up a strong connection.
10 Body Contact
Keep a little body contact going throughout the meeting; small things like touching his arm when you speak.
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A gentle brush as you both reach for the menu, or a playful nudge when he teases you adds warmth and intimacy to the atmosphere between you. These subtle forms of physical connection can send sparks flying, even in the most casual of interactions. Remember, it's the lightness and natural ease of these touches that convey affection and interest without overwhelming pressure. Keep it sweet and simple, allowing the chemistry to build at its own lovely pace.
11 Be Yourself
Don’t be afraid to be a little awkward. It’s authentic and much cuter than putting on a front.
12 Eye Contact
Eye contact is essential. Your gaze says a lot about what you are interested in, so keep it on him and he’ll get the message!
13 Don’t Pretend
Don’t pretend to understand his jokes or discussions if you don’t. He’ll notice the lies and it won’t be a good look.
14 Relaxed Hair
Sport a casual but classy hairstyle for your first meeting; don’t go overboard with the curlers. Keep it casual and let your personality do the talking.
15 Calm Body Language
Don’t be over the top in terms of body language; punching a guy in the arm when he tells a good joke definitely isn’t on top of the cute list!
16 Floral Perfume
Opt for a sweet, floral perfume or a more heady, musky scent. When it comes to ‘cute’, the sweeter fragrances are more fitting of the bill.
17 Be Inquisitive
Ask him questions about himself and his life. He’ll enjoy that he isn’t the only one doing the work and appreciate that you are genuinely interested in his answers.
There’s nothing wrong with being a strong, confident woman – there are guys who like that. Just like there are guys who prefer cute and diffident. If you’re more on the shy side or lacking confidence with guys, these tips will help you.
