Don't be embarrassed if you create a strange sound during sex or make a move that's far less graceful than you would've liked. Those things happen to everyone, no matter how old they are or how much experience they have. Don't feel bad, because it's perfectly normal for the following things to happen during sex:
1 Queefing
Have you heard of this word before? It's basically when your vagina makes a sound similar to a fart. Of course, it isn't smelly! It happens when air gets pushed out of your vagina. Don't be embarrassed if you hear yourself make this sound, because you can't help it. If you're dating a mature guy, then he'll either laugh along with you or ignore the entire thing. If he's grossed out, he's too immature for you.
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2 Bumping Noses
It doesn't matter how experienced you are when it comes to kissing. We all make mistakes when we're caught up in the moment. That's why you shouldn't be embarrassed if you end up bumping noses with him or even bumping teeth with him. While we're at it, don't feel bad if your teeth graze him while giving him oral either. As long as you don't bite down, he'll survive.
3 Getting Stuck in Your Own Clothing
Most of us wear pretty tight clothing. That's why it can be so hard for us to tear off our shirts and wiggle out of our jeans. If it takes you a while to remove your outfit, don't be embarrassed about it.
4 Stomach Rolls
It doesn't matter how skinny you are. When you bend your body into certain positions, it's going to look like you have rolls on your tummy. But guess what? Your boyfriend won't care. Even if you're a few pounds heavier than you'd like to be, now isn't the time to worry about it. After all, you're with the person who loves every inch of your body. He's not someone you should be self-conscious around.
5 Hair in Your Face
If you have long hair, you're probably going to end up getting it in your eyes, your mouth, and his mouth. It's nothing to be embarrassed about. He might even find it sexy. But if it gets out of hand and starts frustrating you, you can always tie it back with a hairband. It's no big deal.
6 Sweating
Don't be embarrassed if you start panting and sweating after a few minutes of being on top of him. Sex is hard work. He won't be mad if you ask him to switch positions, so you can give yourself a break. As long as he's having sex with you, he's going to be happy. He won't mind putting in a little extra effort.
7 Getting Drool All over
It's not unusual for you to get saliva everywhere, especially if you're giving him oral. In fact, that's a good thing. If it was too dry down there, then the friction would be painful for him. Be happy that your body is creating enough wetness for him to have a good time.
8 Something on Someone's Genitals
Let's get this out of the way first: if you see something not right (i.e. Cancerous looking or STI looking-run!) when I say something on someone's genitals, I mean that embarrassing moment he stops going down on you to pick off toilet paper stuck to your hoo-ha. Or when you're going down on him and realize a fuzz stuck to his twinkie from his boxers. Pick it off and move on because it happens to the best of us!
9 Crotch BUrn
Again, you shouldn't be sexual partners if you or them has some funky itchy stuff going on down there. However, if you don't shave your pubes everyday, you're going to one day discover rug burn (no pun intended) from the prickly pubes growing back that scratch your partners face. Say sorry and let it go because it happens.
10 Delayed Leakage
Nothing worse than cleaning up and realizing later when you stand that your mans baby juice is dropping out of you like Niagara Falls! Go clean it up-AGAIN-and laugh it off. When you do the horizontal mambo you're bound to have a few cases of this in the future.
You shouldn't be embarrassed about anything that happens in the bedroom. It's a time for you to let loose and have fun, not for you to overthink. What's the most embarrassing thing that's ever happened to you during sex?
