9 Love Songs to Listen to when You Are in a Fight ...

9 Love Songs to Listen to when You Are in a Fight ...
By Heather • Jul 25, 2025

Listening to love songs when you are in a fight is the best way to soothe your emotions! If you are in a fight with your boyfriend and are looking for the perfect love songs to listen to, I've got the list! I've got all of the songs that you can listen to when you are feeling down, when you are hurting from a fight and songs that can perk you right up! So girls, you ready to explore my top love songs to listen to when you and your boyfriend are bickering?

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1. Jake Bugg- Broken

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When fighting with your boyfriend this is the perfect song to listen to. It is about finally breaking down but still loving your partner. "Still my heart beats for you".

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  • Sometimes, when you're in a fight, music can help you process your emotions, and love songs often touch on relatable feelings. They can remind you of the love you share and why it's worth working through the tough times.

  • Absolutely! Some songs have lyrics that speak directly to reconciliation and the emotions involved. Listening to them can open up a dialog between you and your partner, or even just help you get into a mindset where you're ready to make peace.

  • While any song that resonates with you can help, love songs tend to be written with emotions and relationships in mind. They often capture the complexities of love, fights, and making up, making them particularly effective during those times.

  • Of course! The important part is that the song means something to you or both of you. You can even share your preferred songs and explain why they matter to you—it could be a great bonding experience.

  • That's totally normal! Emotions are part of the healing process. Sometimes feeling those feelings deeply can help you work through them and come out stronger on the other side. Just make sure to communicate with your partner about how you're feeling.

2. Pink – Blow Me One Last Kiss

The first love song that we're going to talk about is by Pink. Now, this is a girl that has been up and down with her husband and this is a great love song to listen to when you are fighting with your boyfriend. It's catchy, it's super poppy and it's great to listen to when you feel like your relationship is on the rocks.

  • Sometimes, when you're in a fight, music can help you process your emotions, and love songs often touch on relatable feelings. They can remind you of the love you share and why it's worth working through the tough times.

  • Absolutely! Some songs have lyrics that speak directly to reconciliation and the emotions involved. Listening to them can open up a dialog between you and your partner, or even just help you get into a mindset where you're ready to make peace.

  • While any song that resonates with you can help, love songs tend to be written with emotions and relationships in mind. They often capture the complexities of love, fights, and making up, making them particularly effective during those times.

  • Of course! The important part is that the song means something to you or both of you. You can even share your preferred songs and explain why they matter to you—it could be a great bonding experience.

  • That's totally normal! Emotions are part of the healing process. Sometimes feeling those feelings deeply can help you work through them and come out stronger on the other side. Just make sure to communicate with your partner about how you're feeling.

3. One Direction - Same Mistakes

We all make mistakes, but do you find yourself constantly fighting with your boyfriend over the same mistakes? I love this song because I can actually relate to it. When my partner and I fight, this is totally one of the love songs that I turn to every single time! It's not super sappy, but it's still got meaning to it!

  • Sometimes, when you're in a fight, music can help you process your emotions, and love songs often touch on relatable feelings. They can remind you of the love you share and why it's worth working through the tough times.

  • Absolutely! Some songs have lyrics that speak directly to reconciliation and the emotions involved. Listening to them can open up a dialog between you and your partner, or even just help you get into a mindset where you're ready to make peace.

  • While any song that resonates with you can help, love songs tend to be written with emotions and relationships in mind. They often capture the complexities of love, fights, and making up, making them particularly effective during those times.

  • Of course! The important part is that the song means something to you or both of you. You can even share your preferred songs and explain why they matter to you—it could be a great bonding experience.

  • That's totally normal! Emotions are part of the healing process. Sometimes feeling those feelings deeply can help you work through them and come out stronger on the other side. Just make sure to communicate with your partner about how you're feeling.

4. Secondhand Serenade - Fall for You

There is something about Secondhand Serenade's voice that just makes me want to cry over and over again. It's beautiful and this love song is great when your relationship is on the rocks. It can make you believe in your relationship again, it can rejuvenate your relationship over all over again and make you realize just what you have. So, are you ready to fall for your boyfriend over and over again?

  • Sometimes, when you're in a fight, music can help you process your emotions, and love songs often touch on relatable feelings. They can remind you of the love you share and why it's worth working through the tough times.

  • Absolutely! Some songs have lyrics that speak directly to reconciliation and the emotions involved. Listening to them can open up a dialog between you and your partner, or even just help you get into a mindset where you're ready to make peace.

  • While any song that resonates with you can help, love songs tend to be written with emotions and relationships in mind. They often capture the complexities of love, fights, and making up, making them particularly effective during those times.

  • Of course! The important part is that the song means something to you or both of you. You can even share your preferred songs and explain why they matter to you—it could be a great bonding experience.

  • That's totally normal! Emotions are part of the healing process. Sometimes feeling those feelings deeply can help you work through them and come out stronger on the other side. Just make sure to communicate with your partner about how you're feeling.

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5. Christina Perri - Jar of Hearts

While this might seem like a song that you'd break up to, it's also a great love song to listen to when you are fighting with your boyfriend. I love all of the words and I love the fact that Christina really seems like she is closed off to the world – especially when it comes to her boyfriend. Do you sometimes feel like that? Then you'll be able to relate to this song beautifully!

  • Sometimes, when you're in a fight, music can help you process your emotions, and love songs often touch on relatable feelings. They can remind you of the love you share and why it's worth working through the tough times.

  • Absolutely! Some songs have lyrics that speak directly to reconciliation and the emotions involved. Listening to them can open up a dialog between you and your partner, or even just help you get into a mindset where you're ready to make peace.

  • While any song that resonates with you can help, love songs tend to be written with emotions and relationships in mind. They often capture the complexities of love, fights, and making up, making them particularly effective during those times.

  • Of course! The important part is that the song means something to you or both of you. You can even share your preferred songs and explain why they matter to you—it could be a great bonding experience.

  • That's totally normal! Emotions are part of the healing process. Sometimes feeling those feelings deeply can help you work through them and come out stronger on the other side. Just make sure to communicate with your partner about how you're feeling.

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6. Avril Lavigne - Wish You Were Here

Sometimes, when you are fighting with your boyfriend, all you want them to do is come wherever you are and cuddle with you. Sometimes, you want it all to be over right? Every girl typically has a layer of toughness and truth be told, it's hard to shed that sometimes and when you in a fight, sometimes those walls can go right back up. This song is all about needing your boyfriend and realizing just how great he is – even though you are fighting with him.

  • Sometimes, when you're in a fight, music can help you process your emotions, and love songs often touch on relatable feelings. They can remind you of the love you share and why it's worth working through the tough times.

  • Absolutely! Some songs have lyrics that speak directly to reconciliation and the emotions involved. Listening to them can open up a dialog between you and your partner, or even just help you get into a mindset where you're ready to make peace.

  • While any song that resonates with you can help, love songs tend to be written with emotions and relationships in mind. They often capture the complexities of love, fights, and making up, making them particularly effective during those times.

  • Of course! The important part is that the song means something to you or both of you. You can even share your preferred songs and explain why they matter to you—it could be a great bonding experience.

  • That's totally normal! Emotions are part of the healing process. Sometimes feeling those feelings deeply can help you work through them and come out stronger on the other side. Just make sure to communicate with your partner about how you're feeling.

7. Katy Perry – Part of Me

Being in a fight can be really hard sometimes, especially if the fight is stupid. If you've been fighting a lot with your boyfriend, sometimes, you just want to throw your phone away, sometimes, you just don't really want to talk, sometimes, a love song is all you need. This is the perfect love song to listen to when you are feeling a little reckless during a fight.

  • Sometimes, when you're in a fight, music can help you process your emotions, and love songs often touch on relatable feelings. They can remind you of the love you share and why it's worth working through the tough times.

  • Absolutely! Some songs have lyrics that speak directly to reconciliation and the emotions involved. Listening to them can open up a dialog between you and your partner, or even just help you get into a mindset where you're ready to make peace.

  • While any song that resonates with you can help, love songs tend to be written with emotions and relationships in mind. They often capture the complexities of love, fights, and making up, making them particularly effective during those times.

  • Of course! The important part is that the song means something to you or both of you. You can even share your preferred songs and explain why they matter to you—it could be a great bonding experience.

  • That's totally normal! Emotions are part of the healing process. Sometimes feeling those feelings deeply can help you work through them and come out stronger on the other side. Just make sure to communicate with your partner about how you're feeling.

8. Coldplay - Fix You

When you are really trying your best in a relationship, when you are really trying to fix yourself and make yourself better for someone but you are still having the same fight, it's frustrating. That's what this song is all about ladies, it's the perfect love song to listen to when you really want to relate to music.

  • Sometimes, when you're in a fight, music can help you process your emotions, and love songs often touch on relatable feelings. They can remind you of the love you share and why it's worth working through the tough times.

  • Absolutely! Some songs have lyrics that speak directly to reconciliation and the emotions involved. Listening to them can open up a dialog between you and your partner, or even just help you get into a mindset where you're ready to make peace.

  • While any song that resonates with you can help, love songs tend to be written with emotions and relationships in mind. They often capture the complexities of love, fights, and making up, making them particularly effective during those times.

  • Of course! The important part is that the song means something to you or both of you. You can even share your preferred songs and explain why they matter to you—it could be a great bonding experience.

  • That's totally normal! Emotions are part of the healing process. Sometimes feeling those feelings deeply can help you work through them and come out stronger on the other side. Just make sure to communicate with your partner about how you're feeling.

9. Christina Perri – Distance

This is one of my favorite songs to listen to when I am in a fight with my partner. It's a song I can relate to and the words are just so awesome! Jason Mraz and Christina Perri are beautiful together girls and this is totally a song that everyone who is in a relationship can relate to!

So girls, there you have it, all of my top love songs that you can listen to when you are in a fight! What other love songs do you listen to when you are in a fight? Any top ones?

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i love this song so much it reallly makes me wonder

Avril is the best but she needs to learn to stop swearing in every song lol. Especially the one of this list cuz she says damn every other word

This is a very good list :) Fall For You and Fix You are my faves. I think Mad by Ne-Yo should be included too ;)

All great songs! Love this , thanks a lot !!!!:)

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