Realistic Places to Meet Men ...

The world of dating can be a tough place to navigate when you are single and ready to mingle, especially if you are not a fan of the many dating apps and websites that people rely on so heavily in the modern dating scene. You might be a little more old fashioned in your approach, you might prefer the idea of making a connection with someone naturally, face to face, without the help of any swiping or algorithms that a software programme can provide. In order to do this, though, you have to know where to go in order to stand the best chance of meeting someone! If you are in the mood to head out in search for a new partner, then here are some of the best and most realistic places to meet men.

1 The Gym

The gym is a great place to meet guys, in particular guys that you know like to take care of themselves and are active. Keeping fit is something that couples like to have in common, so you definitely need to have an interest in fitness as well! Offer him a towel, offer to spot him, anything to get a conversation going.

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Even more, you can join a fitness class or bootcamp. Nothing bonds two people quite like sweating it out during a grueling workout. Don't hesitate to strike up a chat over which protein shakes are the best, or share a laugh when trying to master a new, awkward exercise. Remember, keep it casual and friendly – a flirty challenge over who can do more burpees can be a fun way to catch his interest. Just make sure your approach is as smooth and natural as your post-workout glow!

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2 Bars

It’s a classic but it still works a charm! Going to a bar is a great social occasion to meet a guy, especially after a few drinks have been had and people’s awkwardness isn’t as pronounced. There will be a crowd, and music, so little chance for uncomfortable silences when you are making your first interactions.

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Bars offer an ideal backdrop for spur-of-the-moment interactions. Often, you can join a trivia night or enjoy a live band, sparking a conversation over shared interests. It's the perfect setting to suggest a round of drinks as an icebreaker with someone who's caught your eye. Moreover, most bars have a relaxed atmosphere that encourages mingling and casual chats. Put on your best smile, grab your favorite cocktail, and you're all set for an evening that could lead to meaningful connections. Just remember to drink responsibly and keep your wits about you!

3 Cafes

If you prefer a more quiet and slow paced kind of environment, then you might find the guy you are looking for in a café. Head out to your local coffee spot to do a little work, or a little reading, or perhaps attend an organized event, and you will be sure to make some eye contact with a guy who likes doing the same things.

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Many cafes also host open mic nights, book clubs, and local bands that can provide a perfect opportunity to mingle in a relaxed atmosphere. Grab a latte and sit by the communal table or near the counter, and you might catch the attention of someone with similar interests. Don’t be shy about striking up a conversation over the current book you’re reading or your favorite coffee blend—it could be the perfect icebreaker with a potential new suitor who shares your taste for a cozy, conversational setting.

4 Work

You’re there every day after all, why not consider work as the perfect place to meet someone!? Did you know that around 15% percent of people meet their future spouses at work? Use the break room or canteen as a place to check out the guys that are working around you, you might just find one that takes your fancy. Tread with caution, however, as when you are working with a guy every single day, the risk of making things awkward of after a bad breakup or bad date experience is much higher than meeting a stranger at a bar or café!

5 Online

It’s 2018, and I wouldn’t be surprised if statistics showed that more than half of the dating population do the majority of their work online these days. From dating websites like OK Cupid to simple apps like Tinder, meeting someone who you think you are compatible with has never been easier. Just a few swipes in one direction and you can be on a date that very evening.