When it comes to marriage, society has imposed the attitude that no matter what sort of problems you are going through with your spouse, it is always best to try to work through it and sort things out. Of course, in terms of minor squabbles and misunderstandings, it might be the right idea to come to a compromise, but we all know that some problems are too broken to be fixed. Here are the most telling signs your marriage is not worth fighting for.
It’s not about love anymore, it’s about personal safety and security.
It is one the biggest betrayals a marriage can suffer, and around nine times out of ten there is no way back from that.
You can’t spend the rest of your life for someone you have no feelings for.
Every day feels like a pointless battle with no compromise in sight.
Your partner isn’t trying to change, and they aren’t interested in making you happy anymore.
It has reached the point where it genuinely feels like you are living with a stranger.
Even if you did patch things up one more time, there would never be a feeling of security in the marriage again.
They would always be in the back of your mind, festering and bubbling.
When substance abuse is involved in the marriage, it can turn people into completely different versions of themselves, and everything goes toxic.
People don’t realise it, but a bad marriage can be an incredibly lonely thing.
You feel like they actually see your more as a pet to be ordered around than a human equal.
You dream and daydream about all the things you can do without your partner.
When you find that you care more about other people than you do your spouse, it’s a sign to call it a day.
People change over time, not always in to people that their spouses like!
If your partner isn’t making any effort, then you need to ask yourself, why are you even bothering in the first place?