By Holly • 28 Comments
No matter how good of a girlfriend you are, there are always going to be things you do that drive your man crazy. It's unavoidable. Just so you're aware, here are a few small things that'll drive your serious boyfriend nuts:
Just like you wouldn't want him babbling during your favorite rom-com climax, it's only fair to pay him the same respect. Sure, you may not understand the allure of a pitcher's duel or why a touchdown is crucial at this point in the game, but it means something to him. Everyone values their me time with their beloved shows, and his focus demands a little quiet appreciation. If there's really something pressing on your mind, wait for a commercial break to snag his full attention – it's the perfect compromise!
When you insist that you're not attractive, it essentially contradicts his perspective and can be frustrating for him. He adores you, and every time you dismiss your beauty, it's like dismissing his feelings too. Remember, his attraction to you isn't just about your looks; it's about your entire being, the way you laugh, the spark in your eyes, and the love you share. By accepting his compliments graciously, you reinforce the bond you two have, and it allows him to feel like his affection is being acknowledged and appreciated.
Besides being a major turnoff, smoking is horrendous for your health – and smelling like an ashtray is definitely not the key to intimacy. Let's not even start on those lingering tobacco stains and the relentless cough. Girls, trust us, he’d much rather you taste like your signature lip gloss than stale smoke. And to be quite frank, kissing a smoker is often compared to licking an ashtray - not a sensation anyone is eager to experience. Ditch the cigs, and you'll not only do your body a favor but also keep the romance from going up in smoke.
Remember, there's a fine line between a tantalizing aroma and an overwhelming fragrance cloud. A subtle hint of your favorite scent can draw him closer, but dousing yourself in it can be a quick turn-off. Think of perfume as the cherry on top of your beautiful sundae—it should complement, not overpower. So next time before you give that perfume bottle an extra spritz, pause and remember: less is definitely more when it comes to enchanting his senses.
He'll typically nod as you perfect that cat-eye or reapply the lip gloss, with an affectionate roll of his eyes. But if you're rifling through your closet declaring a fashion emergency for the third time while he's pacing by the door, watch out. That patient façade can crumble fast! It's not that he doesn't appreciate the effort you put into looking fabulous—it's just that punctuality is important too. So maybe save the wardrobe meltdown for a night that’s not time-sensitive, and watch how he glows with pride when you both walk in on time and in style.
Few things can shatter the romance and flow like an unexpected intrusion. Whether it's a persistent phone call, a knock on the door at the worst possible moment, or even the sudden crash of something in the next room, interruptions are mood killers. Communicate your need for privacy beforehand to ensure uninterrupted time together and consider creating a 'Do Not Disturb' ritual to keep those pesky interruptions at bay. After all, no one wants their passionate crescendo cut short by reality's untimely poke.
Gifting is a way of expressing affection, and when you leave his presents gathering dust, it sends a silent message that you might not value his thoughtfulness. Remember, it's not about the price tag or the brand – it’s about the sentiment. Try to incorporate the items he gives you into your life. It doesn't have to be an everyday piece, but wearing it on a special occasion or mentioning how it complements your outfit can show him you truly appreciate his effort and keep the peace.
Maintaining a sense of independence is crucial in any relationship. Overdependence can be a double-edged sword – while it's endearing to want him by your side, it's also important to cherish your own space. Create a healthy balance by demonstrating your ability to handle life solo. It'll make the times you're together even more special, and honestly, it gives him the chance to miss you – which every guy secretly loves! Remember, leaning on each other is great, but leaning in too much can tip the scales. Keep it balanced, keep it fresh!
Don't feel bad if you do any or all of these things, because there will always be tiny things that annoy your partner. If they love you, they'll be able to handle it. What little thing does your boyfriend do that drives you nuts?