The 17 Major Mistakes Virgo Women Make in Relationships ...

The 17 Major Mistakes Virgo Women Make in Relationships ...
By Heather • Apr 23, 2025

Hey, Virgo stalkers, this one’s for you! You know how amazing you are, right? You’re independent, you’re thoughtful, and you definitely know how to compartmentalize your feelings. Did you ever stop to think about how your star sign affects your love life, though? Because it absolutely does. Take a look at the mistakes Virgo women most often make in their relationships and see if you agree!

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1. You Can Be Really Fussy Sometimes

You Can Be Really Fussy Sometimes This is just something you want to watch out for when you’re with somebody. It’s your nature and that’s cool, but remember that you have to compromise in your relationships.

2. Sometimes, You Are Really Inflexible

Sometimes, You Are Really Inflexible You have to be willing to give a little when there are two people involved. You like doing things your own way, but your partner probably does, too.

3. You Are SUPER Independent, Which Can Be Hard on the Relationship

You Are SUPER Independent, Which Can Be Hard on the Relationship Being independent is awesome and it will definitely serve you well, but you should feel like you can rely on your partner sometimes.

4. You Can Be Skeptical of Your Partner Sometimes

You Can Be Skeptical of Your Partner Sometimes You’re just kind of naturally skeptical on occasion, but unless you know you have something to be suspicious about, you need to try to open yourself up to trust.

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5. You Interfere a Lot

You Interfere a Lot You just like to help and fix problems, right? Remember, though, not everyone will want your interference, at least not all the time.

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6. You Are an Intense Person Sometimes

You Are an Intense Person Sometimes You just need to channel that intensity in the right direction, otherwise, it’s kind of intimidating.

7. You Can Come off as Cold

You Can Come off as Cold Of course, you’re not. You just keep your feelings close to the vest. That’s usually okay, but when you’re in a relationship, you have to reveal your feelings a little.

8. You Can Be Really, Really Picky Sometimes

You Can Be Really, Really Picky Sometimes It’s okay to be picky about some things, but don’t miss out on something great because of it.

9. You Get Offended Easily Sometimes

You Get Offended Easily Sometimes It happens, you know? With your partner, though, you can’t be too sensitive. If you are, you need to have a conversation about the things that offend you.

10. You Need to Be Stimulated a Lot

You Need to Be Stimulated a Lot You can’t stand being bored, especially in your relationship. That’s totally understandable, but you have to do your part to keep things interesting, too.

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A relationship requires two people actively participating in the creation of fun and engaging experiences. It's key that you share the responsibility with your partner; plan dates, surprise each other, and don't shy away from trying new activities together. Remember, communication is critical—express your need for stimulation and listen to your partner’s ideas, too. It is essential to find the right balance between comfort and excitement in your relationship to keep the flame alive.

11. You Are Predictable Most of the Time

You Are Predictable Most of the Time Nothing wrong with that, but since you don’t like to be bored and you do like being stimulated, try not to let yourself get into a rut.

12. You’re Super Conservative

You’re Super Conservative It might be a good idea to open your mind and your heart a little, especially in your relationship.

13. You Require a Lot of Patience from Your Partner

You Require a Lot of Patience from Your Partner As long as you offer the same amount of patience, you’ll be in good shape.

14. You Overthink Everything

You Overthink Everything Being prepared is awesome. Overthinking everything, though … that’s not so awesome all the time.

15. There Can Be a Lot of Breakdowns in Communication Because of Your Overthinking

There Can Be a Lot of Breakdowns in Communication Because of Your Overthinking You just can’t look too far into things because you’re thinking too much. It’ll just lead to a lot of unnecessary fights.

16. When You Are Upset, You Don’t Show It …

When You Are Upset, You Don’t Show It … That’s why you come off as cold sometimes, but remember, this kind of behavior can lead to a lot of arguments, too.

17. … then You Get Resentful

… then You Get Resentful See?

How about it, Virgos? Any of this behavior seem familiar?

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Yeahhhh all of these related to me aaww

Yes I can relate to this a lot lol😊

For me I can relate a little to #3 and #9. But I feel I am becoming better in channeling those feelings. 😊

All of these are me too

I'm a September baby and oh yeah, I can relate to some of them....An Irish Virgo..........

I hate overthinking things...I'm tying hard to work at it but it just happens 🙈

Wow !!! I really over think everything. I need to work on this

Yes definitely me & I'm Virgo. I need to work on these things :-)

im a virgo and all of this about myself is accurate !as hard as that was for me to admit it haha

Everything's so familiar....that's me...me in every mood

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