The Rules for First Dates for the 2️⃣1️⃣st Century ...

1. Make a Clear Plan for the Bill

The person who invited the other can offer to pay, or you can split the bill. Neither choice needs a gender rule. Offer only what you are comfortable paying and talk about it kindly; our full first-date payment guide has easy scripts for the moment the check arrives.

2. Don't Go Somewhere Expensive

Keep in mind that you might have a different budget than your date. If you knowingly choose something expensive, you should pick up the tab. It's best to play it safe on the first date.

3. Choose a Setting Where You Feel Comfortable

Coffee, a walk or a drink can all work for a first date. You do not need alcohol to enjoy meeting someone new. Pick a public place and a plan that lets you get yourself home safely.

4. Say What You Want

It's now easier than ever to get a date with online dating apps. Be yourself and don't try to fit a mold of what your date is expecting. Take my advice--don't edit yourself.

5. Use Your Phone if You Absolutely Need to

Don't be on your phone if you can help it. I know you'd love to tell your bff every little detail, but don't text your friends every play by play of your night. Your date would probably get the impression that you're bored and don't want to be there. If there is an emergency, tell your date and step out to take a call.

6. The Third Date Rule Isn't a Rule

Waiting for a random number of dates to get intimate is just pointless. Do what's right for the two of you, because there's no reason you can't end up in a serious relationship if you don't wait. If waiting is your thing, who is to judge? You do you!

7. Be Fun

Enjoy yourself no matter what! Your date might be completely boring and awful...if you make it. Still be yourself and keep things upbeat even if you're ready to leave. If anything, you'll walk away with a story to tell.

Keep an open mind and put yourself out there! The first date sets the tone for any potential relationship, so keep it fun and light. Don't be afraid to show your personality and get out of your comfort zone. Be yourself and everything will fall into place.