Introverts do things a little differently than everyone else. I feel pretty secure in saying that because I am ridiculously introverted. It took me ever so long to realize that, however, which probably explains why some of my past relationships ended the way they did – or perhaps I simply needed to find the one very special person who understands my special brand of introversion, my darling Heather. Anyway, the point is, introverts behave a bit differently when they fall in love, too. They do things for and because of their new love that are actually quite meaningful.
1. They Will Break Their Quiet Time to Spend Time with You
Introverts love their quiet time. They need it, they thrive on it, it's essential to them. When we're willing to give it up to spend time with someone else, that's pretty special.
2. They Push Boundaries and Step out of Their Comfort Zone
For an introvert, trying new things, doing something we've never done before, and stepping out of our comfort zones are all terrifying … unless we're doing it for someone we love.
3. They Slowly but Steadily Reveal Their Emotions
It may take us a while to trust you. It may take us a while to open up. It's worth it – for both people in the relationship.
4. They Will Slip into a Crowd if You Want to Be in a Crowd
It puts our teeth on edge, being in a crowd, but we'll brave concerts, Renaissance Faires, and Black Friday sales for the one we love.
5. They Will Push Themselves to Go out – if You Want to
We're generally happy lounging around the house reading, watching TV, or playing games, or maybe hanging out with a small, close group of friends. We'll make ourselves presentable and go out with you if we're in love, though – and we'll even enjoy ourselves.
6. They'll Even Make an Appearance at a Party for You
Introverts aren't usually fond of parties, but that's not to say we'll never go. If you're important to us, we'll make the sacrifice – but don't be surprised if we're zapped afterward.
7. They'll Want to Get to Know You Really Well
Once introverts trust someone and, even more, love someone, we go deep. After all, most of us hate small talk, so we tend to dive into the big subjects right away.
8. They Might Send You Little Gifts and Trinkets That Make Them Think of You
We're just thoughtful that way. Maybe even sentimental. Whatever, it's cute, right?
9. They Notice All the Details about You That People Usually Miss
We pay very close attention to people in general, especially those closest to us. We know the color of your eyes, which sweater you want for your birthday, your favorite Disney movie, and how beautiful your penmanship is.
10. They Will See Your Point of View but Still Keep Their Own
We're all about seeing different perspectives and understanding different viewpoints. We love it. However, we won't capitulate – unless you make a really good point.
11. They Still like to Take Things Slow
We're slow moving creatures. Give us some time. It's worth it.
12. They Will Feel Understood
Well, that's the hope, right? That the person you love will understand you?
13. They Will Come up with Thoughtful Surprises
Just because we want to see you smile.
14. They Will Let You into Their Quiet Space
Oh, yeah. If an introvert loves you, s/he will not only sacrifice quiet time, s/he will share their special spaces with you. That's love.
15. They Might Make You a Playlist
Lots of us express ourselves through music. We love looking for songs that describe something happening in our lives.
16. They Might Try to Call You on the Phone More than Texting
Actually, this depends. Some of us hate talking on the phone. Some of us get texting anxiety.
17. They Will Give You Great Body Language
We have to. We don't say much, so we're used to revealing our feelings through gestures and expressions.
Does this resemble any of the introverts in your life?
Frequently Asked Questions
- How long does it usually take for an introvert to fall in love?
- It varies for everyone, but introverts might take a little bit longer to open up and fall in love. They value deep connections and take their time to build trust.
- What are some signs that an introvert guy is falling for me?
- An introvert guy might show he's falling for you by spending more time with you, sharing personal thoughts, and making small gestures that show he cares. He might not be overly expressive but his actions will speak volumes.
- Do introverts fall in love more slowly than extroverts?
- Generally, yes. Introverts are more cautious and thoughtful about their feelings and relationships. They take their time to understand their emotions before committing.
- How can I tell if an introvert girl is interested in me?
- If an introvert girl is interested, she'll likely engage in deeper conversations, spend quality time with you, and show genuine interest in your life. She might also open up about her own thoughts and feelings.
- What should I do if I'm falling for an introvert man?
- Be patient and give him space to open up. Show genuine interest in his thoughts and feelings, and be supportive. Building a strong emotional connection is key with introverts.