Many men don’t know all of the things that they do wrong in bed. They can’t stop talking about sex and they assume they’re the best out there. They boast about their bedroom skills, but they’re truly clueless as to what they’re doing wrong. Read on to discover the 10 things men do wrong in bed.
1. Pay Attention
Women love foreplay. We consider it to be an essential part of sex. We adore being kissed and explored. When you don’t indulge us with foreplay, we feel like we’re being ripped off. Skipping foreplay is one of the major things men do wrong in bed. It makes sex feel rushed. Of course there are times when we get caught up in the moment, and foreplay isn’t a real concern. When that happens, it’s totally awesome. But, when foreplay is regularly omitted, however, we’re not happy. Spend time kissing and caressing us, please.
2. Don’t Assume Anything
Just because you were satisfied, you can’t assume that we were too. Unless you made a conscious effort to make it pleasurable for us, it very well may not have been. Not all women orgasm easily, and some need some extra assistance.
3. Avoid Being Boring
Women have fantasies. We’ve read «50 Shades of Grey» and we loved it. In fact, we gossip about sex just as much as you do, if not more. So, explore our fantasies. Ask us what we like and what we’ve always wanted to try.
4. Make Sure You’re Manscaping
Manscaping is important. For some women, it’s a necessity. It’s just as significant to us as shaving our legs is to you.
5. Being Predictable Isn’t Cool
Sex should never be predictable. Women don’t want to have sex in the same position, over and over again. We like things to be spiced up.
6. Not Being an Oral Sex Fan
Going downtown is an absolute necessity - plain and simple, no explanation needed. It should be something you do very frequently because you know we love it.
7. Actress of the Year
It’s a man’s job to know a woman’s body. Men should know their woman’s likes and dislikes so sex can be as enjoyable as possible. As a talented lover, you’re supposed to know if she’s faking it.
8. Time is NOT of the Essence
Coffee lines, doctor’s visits, and DMV appointments are all things that should be VERY quick. Sex, on the other hand, shouldn’t be. Some men have trouble lasting long enough for their partner to enjoy herself. You never want to be one of those men! Don’t put a time limit on how long sex should be. There’s no universal average, as all women have different preferences, but it should be long enough to be pleasurable for both of you.
9. Be the Man
Sometimes, we want our men to demonstrate that they’re manly men. We like to be dominated and pushed up against walls.
10. Don’t Rush It
After sex, many women feel emotional. Our bodies release oxytocin, which can make us feel extra needy. If you’re in a rush to go somewhere after sex, and you don’t have a few minutes to cuddle, you’re probably going to hurt our feelings. Stay with us and give us a few extra minutes of love.
Sex should always be enjoyable between two people. Do you have anything to add to the list of things men do wrong in bed?