7 Ways to Attract a Guy ...

Self Confidence • Soft Touches • Dress up • Positivity • Flirty Body Language • More ...

7 Ways to Attract a Guy ...
By Heather • Jan 5, 2012 MD

How to Attract a Guy using your body and non-verbal cues isn't easy, is it girls! It's not impossible though. Below, I'm going to teach you the ins and outs of how to attract a guy without using your voice, instead by using your personality. Personality s huge girls and it's one of the first things that guys notice about a girl. You could be extremely pretty, but if you don't have the right personality to fit with his, he won't take a second look. So ladies, are you ready to learn how to attract a guy without using your voice?

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1. Self Confidence

I swear, this is the biggest one that a lot of us girls lack. You're beautiful, no matter what and you should be confident in it. Self confidence is definitely one of the key tips on learning how to attract a guy. So stay confident and strong and I swear, he'll be attracted without you ever saying anything to him!

2. Soft Touches

When you're a girl, it's all about the touching. So why not lay a few little touches on the guy you're trying to attract? Just a small brush against his shoulder, maybe you accidentally brush against him. Whatever the case, soft touching can make all of the difference in the world and is one of the surefire ways of how to attract a guy easily and without using your words!

3. Dress up

Whenever possible, you want to use your clothes as an extension of you. I'm not saying dress slutty girls, but if you dress to impress, I promise that you'll attract a ton of guys! So get out that LBD and pair it with some kick butt stilettos!

4. Positivity

Guys like a girl that's positive, not a girl that is constantly down in the dumps. One of the surefire ways on how to attract a guy is to simply be positive! You always want to emit that positivity vibe whenever possible, it'll make all of the difference!

If you're looking to engage your partner in intriguing conversations, why not try some hypothetical questions for couples? These fun queries will not only keep the conversation lively but also stimulate deep thoughts and potentially reveal insights about each other's personality and thought processes.

5. Flirty Body Language

Cock your hip, brush your hair back, wink a little – all of these things are totally flirty and a great way to learn how how to attract a guy! I know that when I'm looking to attract a guy, I make sure that I keep up coy little glimpses, it's a great way to start a conversation and you can definitely attract a guy like that. So use your body!

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Cock your hip, brush your hair back, wink a little – all of these things are totally flirty and a great way to learn how to attract a guy! I know that when I'm looking to attract a guy, I make sure that I keep up coy little glimpses, it's a great way to start a conversation and you can definitely attract a guy like that. So use your body! Lean in slightly during conversations, laugh genuinely at his jokes, let your fingers casually brush his arm – these subtle moves can speak volumes. Remember, confidence is key!

6. Eye Contact

When you're using non-verbal cues on how to attract a guy, eye contact is so important! You can occasionally catch his eyes or do some coy little glances, like I mentioned above. Your eyes are definitely important when you're trying to attract a guy!

7. Wits

This is where you can finally start to use your voice ladies. Learning how to attract a guy is hard sometimes, but guys like it when a girl has wits and knows how to use 'em. So get out that sarcastic self!

Learning the ins and outs of how to attract a guy is hard when you first start out! Ladies, if you follow these how to attract a guy tips, I promise you'll have to beat the guys off of you! What tips and tricks have you used in the past? Any advice to someone who's knew at the attraction game? Come on, share your advice here!

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  • Gador

    2013-02-20T19:44:58.000Z

    Hiii there's this boy who I have liked for a while, and he acted like he liked me back and was all cute around me and hugged me, spent time with me after school etc But suddenly he stopped talking to me, he says it was my fault we spent like 1 month without even looking at each other. During that month one of his friends sat near me in class and we kind of flirt he made me forget the other guy. But know the other guy has started to talk to me again! What should I do? Please help xx
  • Anonymous

    2012-01-26T19:11:40.000Z

    I met a guy online and we have been talking and seeing each other for about 5 months. We have only had sex and we have never gone out on dates. Some tiems he will text or call me to let me know he misses me and ask when am I coming over, but it's never to ask about going out. I have told him I don't think he really likes me but he says he does. I want more in the relationship if that's what you would call it. I want to go out and hang with him and do things together, not just have sex.
  • Kristin

    2013-01-16T03:27:34.000Z

    Hey :) sos theres this guy in my gym hes really cute and i think i like him he goes to do tenis so we are not in any class! How do i talk to him? or better how i make him to talk me?
  • Anonymous

    2012-06-02T15:45:09.000Z

    I have been hanging out with this guy for like 3 weeks now and he would send me cute messages every morning. Now its like I mean nothing and he is short with me. What do I do to get him back?
  • Shekinah

    2012-09-28T10:37:20.000Z

    Please help
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