7 Totally Okay ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿผ Reasons to Say No ๐Ÿšซ to Sex You Shouldn't ๐Ÿ‘Ž๐Ÿผ Feel Bad ๐Ÿ˜” Saying ๐Ÿ—ฏ ...

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You don't have to have sex every single time that your boyfriend claims he's in the mood for it.

There's nothing wrong with turning him down.

He might be upset about it for a minute or two, but he'll eventually get over it.

If he doesn't, then he's not the right one for you.

Remember that these are a few perfectly acceptable reasons for turning down sex:

1. Youโ€™re Not in the Mood

Youโ€™re Not in the Mood

You're not going to be horny 24/7.

It's impossible, so don't feel bad if you aren't in the mood at the same time as your boyfriend.

You don't owe him anything.

Even if you two made out a bit and you gave him blue balls, it's no big deal.

If he's upset about it, then he can go into the bathroom and take care of the problem with his own two hands.

2. Youโ€™re Tired

Youโ€™re Tired

You don't want to force your boyfriend to do all the work, but that's exactly what will happen if you agree to have sex with him when you're tired.

You won't be getting on top, moving your hips, or enjoying yourself at all.

Your boyfriend should be happy that you decided to turn down sex instead of giving him what he wanted and creating a miserable experience for the both of you.

3. Your Stomach Hurts

Your Stomach Hurts

If you're feeling sick, then you shouldn't have sex.

Sure, if you have cramps or a headache, then an orgasm might make the pain go away.

But orgasms aren't going to do anything for your stomach.2

In fact, if your stomach hurts, then sex might upset it even more, because your body is going to be bouncing around.

4. Youโ€™re Mad at Him

Youโ€™re Mad at Him

Angry sex isn't all it's cracked up to be.

If you're pissed off at your partner, then you should wait until you two make up before you have sex.

Sure, the sex might make you two forget that you were mad at each other, but it's not a healthy way to deal with your problems.

If you don't talk things out, then none of your problems will ever be fixed.

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