When you first meet, you do not need sexy games to spice up your date night, you can’t get enough of each other – there’s always kissing, hugging, hand-holding and love making.
And then with familiarity comes the routine, not to mention responsibilities of the daily life. Slowly, the sexiness in your relationship may dwindle to a point where sex becomes almost a hum drum transaction.
In some cases, it is even scheduled in the calendar, like every Monday night or Sunday morning when the kids are asleep.
Long-term relationships need to be kept alive. Getting bored with the same sexual routine is dangerous to a relationship, and it then begins to be possible that one or the other of you might stray. It’s not that he or she doesn’t love you; it’s that familiarity can be so unbearable.
If your bedroom life has become predictable and infrequent, it’s high time you spiced things up in the bedroom with some sexy games. I have chosen just a few that I think are fun, but I’m sure you can think of other cute sexy games that tickle your fancy.
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1. Say It with Sushi
I do! And so does my gorgeous dearly-beloved man. You could go out to dinner, of course, and eat all you can at a buffet. Or you could try and do something a little more daring. This is what I do. Instead of going out to dinner to eat sushi, I order a deluxe platter of sushi and have it delivered. I make sure that the sushi includes a variety of delicious eats, from tuna to salmon to avocado and even eel. Then I blindfold my man and put a piece of sushi somewhere on my body. He has to find the sushi using his mouth alone. After he eats it, he has to name the ingredients. If he gets it right, I… let’s just say he gets handsomely rewarded.
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This article suggests a unique and exciting way to spice up your date night with your partner - playing a game with sushi! Instead of going out to a traditional dinner, the author recommends ordering a deluxe platter of sushi and having it delivered. They then blindfold their partner and place a piece of sushi on their body for their partner to find and eat. If they can correctly name the ingredients, they are rewarded. This game adds an element of surprise and sensuality to the meal, making it a fun and memorable experience for both partners.
2. Spin the Bottle
Remember being 15 and playing spin the bottle? When the bottle faced you, you had to take off a piece of clothing in front of a whole circle of other gawky adolescents or kiss the person opposite you. It was awkward but thrilling at the same time. Okay, now that you’re in a relationship, there are only two of you in the game. Nevertheless, it’s still a lot of fun. Wear your sexiest underwear and take off each item as coyly as possible for your man to be really spiced up.
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Remember being 15 and playing spin the bottle? When the bottle faced you, you had to take off a piece of clothing in front of a whole circle of other gawky adolescents or kiss the person opposite you. It was awkward but thrilling at the same time. Okay, now that you’re in a relationship, there are only two of you in the game. Nevertheless, it’s still a lot of fun. Wear your sexiest underwear and take off each item as coyly as possible for your man to be really spiced up.Add some playful teasing and seductive gazes to make the moment even steamier.
Frequently asked questions
3. Kissing Game
Kissing gets the adrenalin going and generally gets you in the mood. Couples don’t kiss enough. So here’s a fun kissing game. You think of a word in a category, say “parts of the body”. Your partner has to guess the word. Each time he gets it wrong, you must kiss each other. You decide how long the kiss is. Try and choose something obscure, like middle ear drum, if you want the kisses to go on and on!
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Kissing is a great way to increase the intimacy between a couple. It can be a fun and exciting way to spice up a relationship. That's why it's important to make sure that couples don't forget to kiss each other often. One way to do this is by playing the Kissing Game.
The Kissing Game is a fun and simple game for two people. It starts by one person choosing a category, such as "parts of the body". The other person then has to guess the word within the chosen category. Each time they get it wrong, the couple must kiss each other. The length of the kiss is up to the couple themselves. The more obscure the word is, the longer the kiss can be.
This game can be a great way to increase the connection between two people. It can help to break down barriers and create a more intimate atmosphere. It can also help to build trust and understanding between the two. Plus, it can be a great way to have some fun and show your partner how much you care.
4. Doctor/patient Role Play
Seriously. Play acting in the bedroom is fun. It allows us to leave our conventional selves and act out a part. Usually in this game, the man is the doctor and the woman the patient. Why not try it the other way around? It’s sure to bring some spice into sex life.
5. Hide and Seek
This is another childhood favourite that all of us can remember playing. Someone hides somewhere in the house, while the other shuts their eyes and counts to 20. Then they must find the person who is hiding. In this game, you can take turns hiding and decide on your rewards beforehand. For example, the first time you find him, you may want your reward to be a slow kiss. The first time he finds you, he wants his reward to be… Well, I’ll leave that one to your imagination.
Having fun in the bedroom means lots of laughter, and we all know laughter is the best… recipe for a happy relationship.