7 Ways to Deal with a Friend Who is Obsessed with Her Boyfriend ...

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No matter how many times we say friends come before boyfriends, we all have encountered that one friend who is obsessed with her boyfriend.2

She spends every minute with him, and when she is not with him, she is talking about him or texting him nonstop.

It can get pretty annoying real fast and it can have a huge toll on your friendship.2

While each friendship is different and can be dealt with in different manners, here are some of my personal ways that I have dealt with a friend who is obsessed with her boyfriend.

1. Change Your Perspective

I know it can be very hard to deal with a friend who is obsessed with her boyfriend, but thinking about her point of view could help the situation.

Think about how she might be feeling towards her boyfriend.

By understanding why she is so intent on spending time with him, you might start to understand and accept her obsession a tad bit more.

Give Them Space

Comments:

lisa
@lisa, it's literally come to the point where i search for advice on pages like this.. that's when i know it's bad.
Amber
I have 3 of my closest friends. Like out of my 5 best friends, 3 of them are obsessed. One of them never bothers speaking to me anymore, one of them i live with and still never see and she's all high and mighty about it and the other is just scarily obsessed but might listen to me. There's never an excuse for this.
Mari Helliksen
I have a friend who always does this! Always! And when they break up, I'm always there. But when I need her in my life, like now, all she can think about is her boyfriend.. I'm so sick of it. What should I do?
Tracey Anne
I was talking to my friend and needed to and he called and she just walked off talking to him! I'm there for all the times of despair, but come time for me to talk, or want my things back, and bam nothing. Emotionally draining.
Denise Cristobal
Hey Zoze. That's awful! :(
Zoze
My best friend of 4 years wont come to my 18th in 3 weeks because of her boyfriend of 1 month :'(
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