It doesn't matter if you're sexually active or still a virgin, because it's never too early (or late) to learn about sex. Luckily, Your Tango has created a list of some of the things men wish more women knew about sex. Here are some of the most important points:
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1. You Should do Your Part
He shouldn't be the only one doing the work. Sex is a two way street.
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In the dance of intimacy, participation is key. Let your actions speak as loudly as your words, showing your partner your enthusiasm and desire. Avoid laying back and assuming your man will orchestrate the entire show. Engage and interact; it's a shared adventure that flourishes with mutual effort. By contributing to the rhythm, you not only heighten your own pleasure but also affirm his. And trust this: your active involvement could be the secret ingredient that transforms a good experience into an unforgettable one. Remember, connection in intimacy is about giving as much as receiving.
2. Feel Free to Take Control
He doesn't have to take the reigns. It's sexy when a woman makes herself the boss.
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Acknowledging that you have desires too isn't just empowering, it's a turn-on. Men appreciate when a woman communicates her needs and leads the way in the bedroom. It allows them to relax and enjoy the experience, knowing they're pleasing you. Embracing your confidence and guiding the action can be a huge boost to the sexual dynamic. Whether you're giving direction or physically taking charge, showing initiative speaks volumes about your passion and can lead to a more satisfying sexual encounter for both partners.
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3. You Don't Need to Shave
Don't freak out if there's a hair or two in your bikini area, because he doesn't care at all.
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Men often appreciate the natural look, and what matters most is how comfortable you feel in your own skin. If you're not into shaving or waxing, that's perfectly okay! Confidence is incredibly sexy, and your partner is likely more enthusiastic about the intimacy between you two than critiquing your grooming habits. Own your body with pride, because enthusiasm and confidence trump a perfectly groomed bikini line any day. Besides, the moment is about the connection – not the perfection of your landscaping. Stay true to what makes you feel good, and your partner will be on board.
4. Communicate with Him
That's the only way he'll know what you like.
5. He Likes Foreplay, Too
You're not the only one who likes to be seduced. Don't forget to kiss him before taking his clothes off.
6. Don't Wait for Him to Initiate
He'll feel sexier when you initiate intercourse. That way, he knows you really want it.
7. He's Not Always in the Mood
It's a lie that men are always ready for sex. Sometimes, they'd rather sleep.
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Comments
st_cruz: @Mel Francesa Some people are asexual, and some don't have proper testosterone to want sex. Men aren't "men", they're not mindless sex machines.
Kashish: @bb'sdd'soll what are you saying!? That is not true. I guess you need to rethink on your point... Men are also humans. How can you say that 'all men' are insatiable?
Tsering: I love to do sex in different style
Princess123: Some men are not even interested in sex
Tsering: But what u need to do seduce him as much as u can
Kat: Jesus all men are different just like all women are different. Some women I know love sex & want it everyday and others don't. Same for Men. Such stereotypical comments here.
Jown: My man wants to have sex everyday just once a day.
Carl: Personally, I want sex as much and as often as possible when I'm totally into a woman. This DOESN'T mean that I'm horny all the time... it's only when I'm around her.
Hrh: @princess123 that means his not a men himself
Cassieculbreth: It's said that some women really do have the mindset that "men are men and men are always horny,m."
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