7 Little Things to Try for a Steamier Sex Life ...

By Holly

7 Little Things to Try for a Steamier Sex Life ...

If you want a sex life to brag about, listen to what Thought Catalogue has to say. They've come up with a few little tricks you can use in the bedroom to really make your time worthwhile. Here they are:

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Have Sex in Pitch-black Darkness

Have Sex in Pitch-black Darkness This way, you'll have to rely on your other senses to guide you. Instead of seeing your partner's lips, you'll have to feel around for them. The mystery of it all can be incredibly satisfying.

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The absence of light heightens your other senses, making every touch and whisper even more intense. As you navigate through the darkness, anticipation builds, and each sensation is magnified. Your focus shifts entirely to the physical connection you share, allowing you both to explore and respond to the subtle cues of each other's bodies. This sensory deprivation can lead you to a much more intimate and primal experience, free from the distractions of the visual world. It's a way to rediscover your partner, creating a sense of novelty and excitement that can ignite passion in unexpected ways.

2

Keep Your Clothes on

Keep Your Clothes on You don't always have to rip off all of your clothes before having sex. If you keep some items on, you'll feel naughtier. Besides, you know what they look like naked, so you can still fantasize about it.

3

Leave the Door (or Windows) Open

Leave the Door (or Windows) Open Your neighbors aren't going to peek through your windows, but the possibility of it happening can be a major turn on. It'll give you a rush of adrenaline that you don't normally feel.

4

Have Sex before You Go out

Have Sex before You Go out At the end of the night, you two might be too exhausted to get it on. That's why you should do it before you go out with your friends. Then you have a nice memory to think about while you're out.

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Take Turns Narrating the Action

Take Turns Narrating the Action Voices can be a major turn on. That's why you should tell your partner exactly what you're going to do to him before you do it. You can even tell him what you want him to do to you.

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Kiss Each Other Everywhere but the Lips

Kiss Each Other Everywhere but the Lips You shouldn't do this every night, but try it once in a while. If you're not "allowed" to kiss on the lips, your mouth will have to travel to other places. Then you'll touch parts of his body you never bothered with before.

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Commit to Post Sex Debriefing

Commit to Post Sex Debriefing After you have sex, question your partner. Ask him what his favorite and least favorite parts were. That way, you'll learn what he likes and can enhance your performance.

What other sex tips do you have?

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What movie is number six from?

Interesting, turn-on tips. ;)

I would do everhthing else....but leave the windows and door open...thats nasty lmfao. If someone walk in with a gun you gonna feel stupid and scared.

Leaving the windows open definitely does have a sexier atmosphere. My girlfriend definitely gets more in the mood when the balcony door is open. Nobody can see in or anything, but it's just a little thing that gives a sense of being a rebel. Obviously don't leave the doors and windows open all the time, but if you leave the door open for an hour nobody is going to rob you. And if they did, they would have regardless of if you were having sex. And it's more likely that they run away when they hear moaning or walk in on two naked people. Burglars don't want confrontation. They just want money.

I used to go out with my boyfriend and when we got to our destination (restaurant, party, etc) I'd say "Damn! I forgot to wear my panties!" Rest of the night he was driven crazy. I didn't forget. A year later we were married.

I totally agree haha 😛

@Jennifer hyyy

@Neecey Beresford thank you so much!.

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