There are plenty of different kinds of flirty texts to send your crush. You don’t have to blatantly tell him how you feel about him, or ask him out on a date. All you have to do is show your playful side, and show him how much you care. If you’re running low on ideas, here are a few simple flirty texts to send your crush:
1. This Reminded Me of You
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There’s nothing sweeter than being told this. Just make sure that you pick something that makes sense. You don’t want to tell him that the suit you saw would look perfect on him during his wedding day. Stick to telling him that a TV character, or a song, or a bumper sticker reminded you of him. This is one of the flirty texts to send your crush that will let him know he’s on your mind, but won’t make him think you’re obsessed with him.
2. Miss Me?
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If you’re good friends with him, you can jokingly ask him if he misses you right after you walk away. If you haven’t seen him in weeks, then asking him if he misses you is a cute way to start the conversation, because it shows that you miss him. If he returns the text, you’ll know that he feels the same. If he didn’t, he wouldn’t bother to answer.
3. I Had a Dream about You
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If you tell a guy this, you’ll find out a lot by his reaction. If he seems enticed, and assumes that the dream was of a sexual nature, then you know that he’s interested. If he seems a little creeped out, then you can just tell him that the dream was about the two of you and a few other friends at a concert. It’s easy to get out of, if he doesn’t seem okay with your flirtatiousness.
4. I Wish You Were Here
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This is great to tell him while you’re out having fun with your girls. This way, he’ll know that you like being around him, but he won’t think that your happiness depends on him. You’re out with your friends, after all. You don’t need him, but you’d like to have him.
5. Remember when...?
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If you have a funny or flirty memory that you share with him, remind him of it! Text him saying that you were just laughing about the time when he accidentally tripped you or when you kissed at a party. It'll show him that he's on your mind, and the memory should make him think fondly of you, too.
6. Drive Safely
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If he’s about to leave the house, tell him to get to his location in one piece, because you couldn't live without him, or because you need him to help you with homework tomorrow. Telling him how much you care about his health, but adding in some humor, will make him smile.
7. I Had Fun Tonight
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If you hung out together, whether it was as friends or on a date, you should text him to say that you had fun. Otherwise, he might be confused about how you feel. If you take the extra effort to text him a few words of encouragement, he won’t be nervous to ask you to hang out again. If you’re lucky, he’ll respond by telling you that he had a great night, as well.
You shouldn’t overthink the texts you send, because you don’t want to sound robotic or act like someone other than yourself. If the two of you have a connection, then there’s really nothing to worry about, so just have fun! Do you have any additional advice when it comes to text messaging a crush?
Frequently Asked Questions
- What are some cute flirty texts I can send without being too obvious?
- Oh, there are so many! You can say something like 'This made me think of you 😊' or 'I just saw something that reminded me of you!' It’s sweet and shows that you're thinking about them.
- How do I make a text flirty but not too pushy?
- The trick is to be subtle. You don't want to come off too strong. Try saying something like, 'I can't help but smile when I think of our last chat,' or 'You always make my day better.' It’s flirty but still chill!
- What if I’m worried they won’t get the hint?
- It’s totally normal to feel that way! Start with something light like, 'Just saw something and it made me think of you' and see how they respond. If they engage positively, you’re on the right track!
- How can I keep the conversation going after a flirty text?
- Great Q! Once you send that initial flirty text, try asking a light question right after. Like, 'This reminded me of you... what do you think?' or 'Speaking of that, how’s your day going?'
- Any tips for texting my crush without sounding desperate?
- Of course! Keep it light and fun. Don’t overdo it with too many texts. A simple 'Hey, this made me think of you!' once in a while can do wonders. Remember, confidence is key!