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7 Flirty Texts to Send Your Crush That Aren't Too Forward ...

By Holly

There are plenty of different kinds of flirty texts to send your crush. You don’t have to blatantly tell him how you feel about him, or ask him out on a date. All you have to do is show your playful side, and show him how much you care. If you’re running low on ideas, here are a few simple flirty texts to send your crush:

1 This Reminded Me of You

theCHIVE,white,person,photograph,black and white, There’s nothing sweeter than being told this. Just make sure that you pick something that makes sense. You don’t want to tell him that the suit you saw would look perfect on him during his wedding day. Stick to telling him that a TV character, or a song, or a bumper sticker reminded you of him. This is one of the flirty texts to send your crush that will let him know he’s on your mind, but won’t make him think you’re obsessed with him.

2 Miss Me?

photograph,woman,person,beauty,girl, If you’re good friends with him, you can jokingly ask him if he misses you right after you walk away. If you haven’t seen him in weeks, then asking him if he misses you is a cute way to start the conversation, because it shows that you miss him. If he returns the text, you’ll know that he feels the same. If he didn’t, he wouldn’t bother to answer.

3 I Had a Dream about You

text,gadget,technology,electronic device,wii, If you tell a guy this, you’ll find out a lot by his reaction. If he seems enticed, and assumes that the dream was of a sexual nature, then you know that he’s interested. If he seems a little creeped out, then you can just tell him that the dream was about the two of you and a few other friends at a concert. It’s easy to get out of, if he doesn’t seem okay with your flirtatiousness.

4 I Wish You Were Here

text,product,font,line,diagram, This is great to tell him while you’re out having fun with your girls. This way, he’ll know that you like being around him, but he won’t think that your happiness depends on him. You’re out with your friends, after all. You don’t need him, but you’d like to have him.

5 Remember when...?

New York City,collage,art,drawing,design, If you have a funny or flirty memory that you share with him, remind him of it! Text him saying that you were just laughing about the time when he accidentally tripped you or when you kissed at a party. It'll show him that he's on your mind, and the memory should make him think fondly of you, too.

6 Drive Safely

car,vehicle,land vehicle,city car,automotive design, If he’s about to leave the house, tell him to get to his location in one piece, because you couldn't live without him, or because you need him to help you with homework tomorrow. Telling him how much you care about his health, but adding in some humor, will make him smile.

7 I Had Fun Tonight

cartoon,brand,presentation,pattern,hope, If you hung out together, whether it was as friends or on a date, you should text him to say that you had fun. Otherwise, he might be confused about how you feel. If you take the extra effort to text him a few words of encouragement, he won’t be nervous to ask you to hang out again. If you’re lucky, he’ll respond by telling you that he had a great night, as well.

You shouldn’t overthink the texts you send, because you don’t want to sound robotic or act like someone other than yourself. If the two of you have a connection, then there’s really nothing to worry about, so just have fun! Do you have any additional advice when it comes to text messaging a crush?

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