Have you ever thought that you would never date a guy without a college degree? Some of the most successful businessmen never went to college, and they've still done very well for themselves. Some think that getting practical experience will serve you better than spending years building up debts at college. Here are some great reasons to date a guy without a college degree …
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1. Qualifications Don't Equal Intelligence
One reason why it's fine to date a guy without a college degree is that qualifications don't mean the same thing as intelligence. People who haven't had the chance to go to college (or chose not to) are every bit as smart as those who did. Some may even be smarter. Studying at college gives you qualifications, but much can be learned through self-education.
2. Practical
Guys who aren't particularly studious often have other talents. They may be brilliant at practical things rather than being academic. Some would argue that guys like these are far more useful than guys who have degrees but are useless at fixing things. When you date a practical guy, your car will always run smoothly and he'll know how to fix everything in your house.
Frequently asked questions
Absolutely! College education isn't the only marker of intelligence or success. People without degrees can be just as amazing, wise, and driven as those with degrees.
Definitely. A degree doesn't determine someone's ability to be loving, supportive, and a great partner. It's all about the person's character and how they treat you.
While a degree can open certain doors, many people succeed in their careers without one. Skills, experience, and determination count for a lot!
No way! What matters is how you feel about each other, not what others think. Love isn't about degrees; it's about the connection and understanding between two people.
Yes, it can! What counts is mutual respect and common values. Education levels don't have to define your relationship if you communicate well and support each other.
3. Prospects
I'm all for education, but the recent years have shown that having a degree doesn't guarantee you a job. There are plenty of graduates working jobs that don't require a degree. A guy who has spent the college years working his way up may actually have better prospects. By the time he is 22 he has several years of experience in his job, instead of looking for his first job.
4. Shouldn't Judge
It's important not to judge people; just because they don't have a college degree doesn't mean that they're not clever, and it certainly doesn't mean that they're not nice. A guy is worth dating because he shares your values and interests, not because he reached a certain academic level. You could miss out on some really great guys if you dismiss anyone who never attended college.
5. Essential
Guys who didn't go to college are often extremely hardworking people, and they perform some pretty essential jobs. Think of how many jobs don't need a degree. We would be helpless if it weren't for plumbers, mechanics, builders, shop assistants, farmers …
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... electricians, and so many other professionals who keep our daily lives running smoothly. Remember, the value of a person is not measured by the diplomas on their walls but by their character and how they treat you. These guys often have practical skills that have been honed through experience, which can be incredibly attractive. They're the backbone of society, and without them, things would grind to a halt. So, when thinking about your next date, consider the man who might just be able to fix your leaky faucet as well as your heart.
6. Ambitions
You don't have to go to college when you're 18 - lots of people retrain later in life. It's never too late to get the qualifications you want. So a guy without a degree can always return to college and study, if he wants to. Sometimes you don't have the interest in studying when you're young.
7. Nice Guy
Finally, the most important thing about a guy is that he treats you well. Ultimately, those are the only qualifications he really needs, so see his academic qualifications as secondary. A guy with a clutch of degrees may not be as nice as another who missed out on college, so judge him on more important factors.
Even if you think you're not particularly snobby, you may unconsciously have chosen to date guys who went to college. If you meet one who didn't, don't dismiss him. He could be a smart, dedicated, hardworking guy. He may even be a tycoon in the making? What would make you turn a guy down?
Comments
Jasmine: I don't really agree with this article either. While I'm very sure that there are guys that don't need a college degree to be successful, there are even more that don't. Having a college degree isn't just about intelligence (I know guys that aren't intelligent in school now), it's about experiences and having something in common.
Michelle: This is so true!
Monicarose: Just because you don't attend a college doesn't necessarily mean you're not furthering your education. There are different ways for each individual to continue acquiring knowledge. Any girl who would forgo dating a guy simply based on their decision not to attend college is an ignorant bitch.
Nicole: I agree with Holly!
Ciru: I am currently dating (recently engaged to) a wonderful man without a college degree. I have a degree and post grad qualifications. He is the nicest guy I have ever met and he treats me right, protects and looks out for me and my well being. He has ambition and has future plans and goals that are feasible. Money/education is secondary...look for a man who truly loves you and face life's challenges as a team. :-)
andiena: I dont want to sound like i'm hopeless girl who really need bf - but sometime I feel like My bF is less Ambition and still like kids playing around with friends and doesnt even have a saving account, (i dont know he didnt get well paid or something) I'm agree with @holly, but i dont know what to do, Im trying to see him in good view even sometime i think Something goes wrong with us - If he loves me, i guess he has plans and ambition to work and save money to come and live here with me - I understand Long distance relationship get lot of problems - but I dont see Ambitions or initiative from My bF :(
Bukky: I don't really agree with this article. I'd been in a relationship with a guy who had little or no educational qualification. He wasn't really my cup of tea. Those people around me testified they had the same experiences. There are issues of envy, insecurity, in fact, ideas can be different because they perceive the world very differently. At the end of the day, we parted ways
Joanna: This is true. Jerks are everywhere and sometimes more so in college because they can be even more judgmental.
E: This is a sweet article and I enjoyed reading every bit of it. There is no reason whatsoever to deny dating a guy because he does not posses a degree. I know many men with degrees who are unemployed and in debt. Even if they manage to find a decent job in their field of choice, they're either paying loans, or are underpaid. Even more, having a degree does not equate to success,wealth,or intelligence. I know a guy who obtained a degree in biochemistry who had no motivation, intelligence or common sense whatsoever.He was a very condescending person and judged others for their lack of education. Interestingly enough, he would always get fired from his jobs. He is now unemployed, and cannot find work. He lives with his parents at the ripe age of 34, yet still loves to brag about having a degree. The moral of the story is this. College is a choice people make, to pursue a certain amount of knowledge in a field that interests them. Then with that knowledge they obtain a certificate (degree) and begin working. It does not mean they will be successful, it does not mean they are smart or better tha everyone else ... it only means they went to college to work in a field that interests them. most importantly a degree does not make them a good person. What matters the most is who the guy is and how he treats you. Nobody deserves to be judged for that, we all come from different backgrounds. ive known plenty of rotten spoiled brats who went to college and have an aura of entitlement. while i know people who worked hard to earn a living to become successful and mature adults.
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