7 Reasons Why He Probably Said No ...


Asking out a guy can be pretty daunting, especially if you have been rejected before. But as guest contributor Meenakshi says, there could be many reasons why he probably said no...none of which directly involve you. So don't be afraid to put yourself out there and don't take rejection personally.

So recently a friend of mine asked the guy she really likes out on a date. Unfortunately he said no. It is something that all girls dread when asking out the love of their life. Everyone is scared of rejection. It's one of the most embarrassing things that a girl or a guy has to go through. But girls, it may be not you. There are so many reasons why a guy says no and most of them have nothing to do with you. Here are some reasons why he probably said no.

1. Doesn't Know You

You may know him really well and know every detail about him but that may not be the same for him. You may have had a class with him in sixth grade but he just doesn't remember you. Or maybe your friend was the one that pointed him out to you rather that you knowing him personally. Either way, people would rather go out with someone they know. So don't take it personally. Take advantage of this! Make an impression, a new and better one. Get to know him. Then just see how he comes running back.

The Way You Said It


Jessica Nguyen
@Alyanna I agree with you.
And of course the real #1 reason: "He's just not that into you!"
Anti-social doesn't mean your shy or aren't outgoing it means you have little regard for other people's feelings. Look it up! I have a psychology degree, and this is a very common misuse of this word.
You forgot to put that the guy you like might be gay. had that happen to my sister before when she asked a guy out at work.
Stephanie Tutin
I was just like 'oi! What you doing on Wednesday' lol and we've been together for a year now :) the wuss wasn't gonna do it haha sometimes we've just gotta go for it :')
why do we women always have to adjust to men to like us? it should be their problem to make the effort first and woo us
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