Don't you hate when a guy flirts with you for weeks, and then suddenly drops out of your life? When that happens, it's not your fault, so don't blame yourself. Here are a few potential reasons why he might've lost interest:
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1. He Doesn’t Want a Real Relationship
Some men love to flirt, but aren't ready for anything serious. That's why they'll run the other way once they develop a real connection with someone.
2. He Found Someone else
He might have another girl now. It's sad, but it's possible.
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3. He Has Other Things to Worry about
He might be too busy with work or school to focus on a relationship right now. He's prioritizing his career over a relationship.
4. He Hasn’t Seen You Often Enough
If you two never see each other in person, he might've forgotten about how amazing you are. It's easier to crush on someone you see all the time.
5. He Assumed You Didn’t like Him
If he assumed that you didn't have feelings for him, then he's probably trying to move on. He won't want to waste time going after you when he thinks you're only going to reject him.
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6. He's Scared of Monogamy
He might be terrified of commitment. If that's the case, he won't want to call anyone his girlfriend.
7. You Did Something He Didn’t like
You might've made him mad without realizing it. Try to think back to your old conversations to figure out if you pushed him away.
8. He Was Never Actually Interested
Sometimes, we fool ourselves into thinking our crush loves us. Maybe he never actually wanted to date you in the first place (which would mean he's incredibly naive).
9. He Already Got What He Wanted from You
Some men only want sex. If you've already slept with him, he might stop talking to you, because he already got what he wanted.
10. You Were Too Much Drama
Men don't like drama. If your parents or friends were trying to keep you two apart, he might just leave to avoid all of the stress.
11. You Live Too Far Away
If you live far away from him, he might be looking for a girl who lives closer.
12. He’s Fickle
Some men don't know what they want. They change their minds by the day.
13. He Wants as Many Girls as He Can Get
He might be a player. That means he's trying to break as many hearts as he can.
14. The Chase is over
Some men enjoy chasing after women. Once they get the girl, they get tired of the girl.
15. He Lost His Confidence
If he doesn't think he can get you, he might stop trying to go after you.
16. He’s Depressed
If he's having a rough year, he probably won't have time to date. He needs to focus on his mental health first.
17. He Thinks You Deserve Better
Some men will leave our lives, because they think they're doing what's best for us. If he thinks he's a bad guy, he might be saving you the trouble of dealing with him.
It's not the end of the world when your crush drops out of your life. You'll find someone better eventually who wouldn't dream of leaving you. Has your crush suddenly lost interest in you, without explaining why?
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Gauri: Yeah.
Amna: My boyfriend thought about just ignoring me one day. Maybe it's loss of interest maybe it's exams. He wouldn't answer my question.
Neonindian86: From experience, usually if a man does any of these things he's really not that into us to begin with. Live and learn. For me if I have to guess if he may be interested in me. Then he usually isn't.
Serene: I agree with Miss Neonindian86. Really interested guys will make real effort, they don't make up excuses.
Joanne: Medications that might interfere with intimate. Any issues. I use WEBMD to look for stuff like this....a disability yes I know it is a kind of sneaky way of going about it but that's life...c'est
Vash: Ya, my bf stopped talking to me after 1 yr of serious relationship. He really got wat he wanted that's y he left me.
Stephanie: A few years ago, I was seeing a guy I liked a lot and made him chase me. He bugged me for almost a year til I went on a date. Then, he vanished! I soon found out he was in a serious relationship and I DO NOT interfere with another woman's man but I was hur
Paige: Whats the movie/show if the picture of Taylor Lautner
Stephanie: Hurt and angry.Eventually, he started to contact me again and I asked him, what happened to your girlfriend? At least he was honest this time and said the only times he called me was when they were fighting!
elin: I was seeing a guy for 3 months , it's not a long time but he chased me like there was no tomorrow and we chatted every day for that time then he suddlenly lost interest, alot of these reasons fit , but I agree again I doubt he was that interested in me to start with and at the time we don't want to believe it ! I'm glad i do now because i've stopped blaming myself after weeks of feeling terrible !
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