The first thing every girl should know about a guy is that they are born to hunt and that they can sense when a girl is acting crazy. Boys love to chase and accomplish things, especially women. When we stop playing hard to get, and start acting like a needy child, boys lose all interest in us! That's why when a girl is acting crazy, most guys will just take off. So ladies, do you know when a girl is acting crazy? Or when you are acting crazy? Here's a list of the top 15 signs to tell if you've lost your cool, and gained some crazy!
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1. Constantly Calling and Texting a Guy
Having to text a guy first, shame on him; having to text a guy four times, shame on you. Ladies, when you text a guy four times in a row and he hasn't texted you back, this is absolutely one of the signs that you're acting crazy! A lot of guys are unsure if you are into them or not so it's a way to let him know you're approachable, but having to text him more times than that just screams needy. If he isn't making the effort to contact you first, or even respond to you at all, he's most likely not interested or scared of you.
2. Asking Every Person if "He's into You"
Yes, we all love to tell stories of that cute boy we hung out with or are talking to. What else are girlfriends for? But constantly having to ask other people if he's into you should show you a sign that you're acting crazy. When someone is into us we know it. Having to tell the same story over twenty times to people makes you look a little nuts. Girls, if he is into you, you'll know it, no need to keep asking! This is totally one of the things girls do when they are a little nutty!
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First, take a deep breath and remember that everyone has moments where they might overreact or feel emotional. Try to identify what specifically triggered your actions and reflect on it. Communication is key, so consider talking to your partner calmly about how you're feeling. It's also helpful to focus on self-care and find ways to manage stress or anxiety.
It's not healthy to assume anyone likes 'crazy' behavior as people generally prefer balanced, genuine relationships. If you notice unhealthy patterns in your dynamic, like frequent drama or misunderstandings, discuss it with your partner. Look for signs of happiness and contentment in your relationship without the chaos.
Start with a sincere apology if you feel your actions may have hurt someone. Explain your emotions without making excuses, and then show through your actions that you’re working on improving. It's all about understanding and growing, and everyone makes missteps now and then.
Often, the term 'crazy' can be unfairly used to dismiss or undermine women's genuine emotions or concerns. It's important to differentiate between expressing feelings and what might be actual unhealthy behaviors. Labels like these can be damaging, so it’s vital to challenge this stereotype and address real issues.
If you find yourself constantly thinking about boys to the point of distraction, changing your identity or interests just to please them, or feeling unhappy without male attention, these might be signs. It's crucial to maintain a sense of self and remember that your worth is not defined by someone else's attention.
3. Physical and Cyber Stalking
There is a difference between checking out your crush online, and spending 2 hours learning everything about him before getting to know him in person. One of the signs a girl is acting crazy is stalking him on Facebook, Twitter and Tumblr -- all night long! With all of the different ways to see where your crush is hanging out, it's easy to stalk him, but that can be a little creepy. Just play it cool, ladies!
4. Always Available for Him
Another sign a girl is crazy is that she is constantly available to him, whenever he asks to do anything. Make your crush wait a bit before you answer the phone, or try a different day if he asks you out. You don't want him to think that your schedule is always clear!
5. Emotionally Invested Too Soon
Oh ladies, absolutely one of the biggest signs a girl is crazy is when they instantly become in love with any guy that shows them attention. Keep yourself a little more guarded, a little more reserved and don't become emotionally invested right away. It'll be better in the long run, ladies!
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It's totally understandable to feel a spark and get excited, but treating every guy like he's the one after just one date can set you up for a whirlwind of unnecessary drama. Trust me, it's not a race to the altar! Take the time to get to truly know someone—flaws and all—before diving headfirst into emotional commitment. This isn't just about protecting your heart, but also about respecting the natural pace of a healthy relationship. So, keep it cool, take it slow, and remember, the right guy will appreciate getting to know the real you—not just the love-struck version.
6. Personality Change
When you're dating a guy, you never want to morph into someone completely different. Ladies, he likes you for a reason, why would you need to change? Just because he likes cars and trucks doesn't mean you have to too! Have your own likes, dislikes and opinions!
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Remember, embrace your individuality! There's nothing wrong with sharing interests, but there's a fine line between taking an interest and losing yourself. If you find yourself pretending to adore something just to please him, pause and reflect. Relationships are about balance, and it's absolutely okay to have your own hobbies and passions. Diversity can spice things up, so keep the essence of who you are. After all, a genuine connection is built on authenticity - not on a persona you've created to win his heart.
7. Checking Your Phone Every Five Seconds
Oh the phone, I actually do this a lot now and I've been in a relationship for a while! Checking your phone constantly to see if he has called or texted is another sign a girl is acting crazy. Just calm down, no need to constantly check your phone!
8. Pet Project
As someone's girlfriend, it's easy to want to help out your man. Maybe he could use some help getting a haircut that better suits him or he could benefit from more current apparel. Either way, if he asks for help or is open to help, you're good to go. Other than that, no one wants a makeover forced upon them or told that that they need to change. This behavior is a huge turn off and a sure sign of a crazy girl!
9. Putting Him down
When it comes to correcting or offering some constructive criticism to anyone, it takes some finesse. Sometimes, girlfriends think they're doing their guy a favor by critiquing or embarrassing him but that's NOT the way to go. No one wants to be humiliated and put down and it's a good way to push your guy away.
10. Social Media Takeover
Another sure sign of a crazy girl is taking over your guy's social media. Posting all over his Facebook wall, constantly tweeting him, posting a bunch of photos on Instagram and tagging him are too much. It's one thing if it's reciprocal, but a crazy girl will relentlessly post her undying feelings online.
11. Jealousy
Jealousy isn't necessarily at the top of every guy's list of desirable traits in women, so it shouldn't come as a surprise that it's a common trait of a crazy girl. Constantly checking his clothes, asking your friend to hit on him to test his loyalty or looking for signs of cheating aren't the ways to win his heart.
12. Liar Liar
Lying is bad news in any situation but it's a huge red flag when you start lying to the person you're dating. It can start with little things that seem innocent enough but it can easily turn into telling more lies and covering up with bigger lies that can escalate to ridiculous levels. Don't be that girl, just be honest.
13. Dream or Nightmare?
I think we've all had those crazy dreams where we woke up wondering if our dream was real or not. But, if you have a dream where your significant other cheated or was with another woman and you get angry at him and don't let it go, it's a little crazy! It's one thing to mention it to him but holding a dream against him is unfair.
14. You Break His Stuff
Whether it's one time or more, breaking someone's things is not cool. No matter how angry or upset you get, destroying someone's prized possession or vandalizing their property is just plain crazy.
15. You Contact His Ex or New Girlfriend
While we're all curious about exes and new girlfriends of people we've dated, there is a fine line between being curious and harassing them. Usually, there is absolutely no need to be in contact with these people so contacting or keeping track of them is a no-no!
We all know what it's like to have those crazy butterflies that make you think, dream, and breathe only about that crush you have. If you're going to act like a crazy girl, the best way to do it is in hiding because of course there is a little crazy in all of us. Remember to play it cool, stick to being yourself, and remember you're more than enough for any guy. What other ways have you found yourself acting a little nuts?
Comments
PritiS: So being honest and not playing games is a sign of being crazy?
Dakota: When you stand up for him are you crazy?
sassy-girl: I don`t do none of that
Eveylearis: Firstly do NOT listen to number 12. Never contact his new girlfriend of course but if you have to contact an Ex if you’ve had previous suspicions about your current boyfriend and them, please do!. I contacted my Ex’s ex on Instagram through a fake accout
kinu: I would want to add "don't make it obvious that you're trying to look busy or hard to get to him" Because that makes a girl look crazy too -.- lol
Anouk: Omg that is totally me! Noooo :,(
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