The 17 Worst Reasons to Sleep with Him ...

The 17 Worst Reasons to Sleep with Him ...
By Holly • Mar 26, 2022

You don't want to end up sleeping with someone you regret. That's why you need to take a step back from your man and think things through before you go through with having sex. Here are a few of the absolute worst reasons to sleep with a guy:

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1. You Want to Convince Him to Stay

You Want to Convince Him to Stay If you think he's ready to break up with you, sleeping with him isn't going to convince him to stay. Even if it does, do you really want to be with a man who's only using you for sex?

2. He’s Pressuring You

He’s Pressuring You Don't give in to peer pressure. If a man tries to convince you to sleep with him, even though he knows you're uncomfortable with the idea, he's not the right one for you. He should respect your decision.

3. For Money

For Money There are millions of other ways to make money. You don't have to sell your body in order to make a living.

4. All of Your Friends Are Doing It

All of Your Friends Are Doing It Everybody moves at their own pace. If you're the only one in your friend group that's still a virgin, it's not a big deal.

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5. You’re Trying to Make Someone Jealous

You’re Trying to Make Someone Jealous Don't sleep with one man in order to make another man jealous. Flirting alone would do the trick.

6. You Want to Lose Your Virginity

You Want to Lose Your Virginity Don't have sex for the first time just to "get it over with." You'll be happier if you wait until the right guy rolls around.

7. You Feel like You Owe Him

You Feel like You Owe Him You don't owe a man sex, even if he buys you dinner and treats you like a princess. So don't let him guilt you into sleeping with him.

8. You Don’t Have Anything Better to do

You Don’t Have Anything Better to do You shouldn't have sex with a stranger out of boredom. Pick up a book or a video game instead.

9. You Feel Bad for Him

You Feel Bad for Him Don't sleep with him, because you pity him. He wouldn't want that.

10. You Need Human Interaction

You Need Human Interaction There are other ways to feel loved besides having sex. Call up a friend and ask to hang out, pet your dog, or get a hug from your parents instead.

11. To Make Him like You

To Make Him like You Sleeping with him isn't a flirting technique. It isn't going to make him like you.

12. To Raise Your Confidence

To Raise Your Confidence A man isn't going to make you feel any prettier. The only person who can make you feel better about yourself is yourself.

14. For Experience

For Experience You don't need experience right this second. You'll get it when you're good and ready.

15. To Hurt Someone else

To Hurt Someone else Don't sleep with a new boy in order to make your ex cry. Your plan could backfire on you.

16. To Become Popular

To Become Popular Having sex isn't going to make you any more popular. Don't do it to fit in with the popular crowd.

17. For No Good Reason

For No Good Reason If you don't have a good reason for sleeping with him, then don't sleep with him. It's that simple.

The only reason you should sleep with a man is because it's what you genuinely want to do. If it'll make you happy, then go for it. But if you're doing it for someone else, rethink your choice. Have you ever slept with someone you regretted?

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  • BrittanyBAKER

    2016-03-01T04:34:24.002Z

    This wasn't stupid at all. They're all good points!
  • Liz

    2016-03-01T11:03:24.479Z

    It is a sin,...?
  • peony

    2016-03-01T11:09:54.565Z

    Great points but people will do what they want to do so
  • Magicbanana123

    2016-03-01T02:38:18.416Z

    This is stupid. No matter what the reason, if you want to sleep with someone, as long as you have consent and you're not hurting anyone, then go for it.
  • Pink

    2016-03-01T19:36:05.579Z

    @arianak I agree with that, plus I think it's really cute when you wait
  • arianak

    2016-03-01T03:52:03.502Z

    What do you think about being a virgin until the marriage?
  • Splashhhh

    2016-03-01T05:42:15.480Z

    Oook then when we can do it ? Just when we want to have children I guess :p
  • M

    2016-03-01T16:10:01.946Z

    If it's after marriage
  • SleepyWillow692

    2022-03-30T05:40:30.327Z

    Not gonna lie but some of these gifs got me hot lol
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