This is What Every Curious Girl Should Know about Her Sexuality ...

This is What Every Curious Girl  Should Know about Her Sexuality ...
By Holly • Jun 22, 2022

Now that America has officially made same-sex marriage legal, it's time to talk about sexuality. We all know that love is love, no matter which genders are involved, but how much do you really know about your own sexuality? If you don't know much, don't stress, because here are a few things that you'll know from here on out:

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1. You Don't Need to Know What You Are

eyewear, glasses, hair, sunglasses, vision care, Don't stress yourself out over trying to figure out if you're a lesbian, bisexual, or if you fit into any other sexual category. It doesn't actually matter if you know what to call yourself. You're going to develop crushes on certain people and be disgusted by other people. Stop trying to put yourself into a specific category, and just learn to be comfortable liking whomever you end up liking.

2. Bisexuality is More Common than You Think

red, person, facial expression, smile, beauty, If you've ever had a "girl crush," you're in the majority. According to yourtango.com, at least 60% of women admit to being attracted to other women. After all, it's difficult not to find goddesses like Beyonce and Ruby Rose attractive.

3. There Are More Sexualities than You Realize

Hamburg Rathaus, clothing, person, woman, blond, Most people assume that there are three different types of sexualities: heterosexuals, homosexuals, and bisexuals. However, there are a lot more than that! LGBTQAA has a lot of letters, after all. There are also pansexuals, asexuals, androsexuals, skoliosexuals, and transgendered men and women.

4. It's Okay to Experiment

person, facial expression, woman, photography, human action, If you want to kiss another girl, even though you think you're straight, go ahead. Just make sure that she knows that you're not interested in a serious relationship, because you don't want to hurt her. There's nothing wrong with seeing all the world has to offer. If you want to kiss a guy, kiss a guy. If you want to follow Katy Perry's lead and kiss a girl, then kiss a girl, too.

If you're looking to engage your partner in intriguing conversations, why not try some hypothetical questions for couples? These fun queries will not only keep the conversation lively but also stimulate deep thoughts and potentially reveal insights about each other's personality and thought processes.

5. You Can Know Your Sexuality without Having Sex

vacation, sea, beach, ocean, shore, Some people will claim that you can't know what your sexuality is until you kiss someone. Even though it's healthy to experiment, that myth certainly isn't true. You can still be attracted to a certain gender, even though you've never locked lips with them. You don't have to take action on your feelings in order for them to be valid.

6. Same-Sex Marriage is Legally All around

person, bride, woman, wedding dress, Don't be fooled into thinking that same-sex marriage is disgraceful. America certainly isn't the first to legalize it, and it won't be the last either. You're free to marry the same sex in the Netherlands, Belgium, Spain, Canada, South Africa, Norway, Sweden, Portugal, Iceland, Argentina, Denmark, France, Brazil, Uruguay, New Zealand, Britain, Luxembourg, Finland and Ireland.

7. You Can Tell Whomever You Wish

clothing, brown, leather, fur clothing, footwear, You should never be ashamed of your sexuality. However, that doesn't mean that you need to "come out of the closet" with your sexuality. If you figure out that you're bisexual or pansexual, then you don't have to make an announcement to all of your friends and family. Your sexuality is none of their business, so if you want to keep your private life private, do so. Of course, you shouldn't be shy to speak up if you want the whole world to know whom you're interested in. Do whatever you're comfortable doing.

It doesn't matter if you like men or women, because you have a right to love whomever you love. Do you know what sexuality you identify with, or are you trying to figure it out?

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  • Alex

    2015-07-21T12:38:38.476Z

    Hey, just a tip - don't use the word "transgendered". The past tense makes it seem like it's something in the past when it really part of your identity all the time.
  • alka

    2015-07-23T21:50:54.026Z

    Just cause a girl has a "girl crush" doesnt mean she is bi sexual. I think girls are pretty but there is no way I could imagine having an intimate relationship with them.
  • Googlyeyes

    2015-07-23T00:37:56.037Z

    Reminds me of a friend who claimed that you can't know if you are gay until you have tried having sex with the same sex. He had sex with a guy for this purpose and I guess didn't like it because he claimed being straight.
  • Cindy

    2015-07-21T21:14:22.461Z

    Let them without sin cast the first stone. Its what happen to society when they live without God
  • Kerriann

    2015-07-21T15:19:40.658Z

    They need to have same sex marriage here in Australia too!!!
  • Alex

    2015-07-21T12:39:02.818Z

    You could use just trans or trans woman/man
  • Kate

    2015-07-21T11:59:53.239Z

    That was very helpful :)
  • Kelly

    2015-07-21T12:20:06.492Z

    What about Scotland, we were one of the first Countries to legal is same sex marriage
  • Icecrec00kz

    2015-07-21T18:33:55.367Z

    No...its still weird...if theyre born like that its okay bt if theyre influenced then its a mortal sin and when u stand f2f with God then all hell breaks loose!!
  • Cici

    2015-07-21T22:47:31.173Z

    Ehh you cant make everybody except something they don't like. Thats just as wrong as a person not liking a gay, lesbian,etc. You can't force someone. I don't believe,accept it,or whatever.HOWEVER I do respect them and actually have a few friends who is gay,lesbian etc. I don't support it but I will respect that person's decisions. As far as religion you can't get upset over what someone believe in. Have respect for them. And if a country don't allow it...Then move. Simple.
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