I Don't Love Him Anymore but He Loves Me. How do I Tell Him? 💔 ...

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It’s a difficult predicament to find yourself in.2

You don’t love him anymore but he still loves you.

You want out but it seems so complicated to accomplish.

These 7 tips can help you to get out of the relationship without causing him or yourself any more hurt than necessary.

1. Resolve to Be Kind

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First and foremost, resolve to be kind.

Breakups can bring out the worst in people.2

Don’t let that happen to you.

Decide ahead of time that you’re not going to be bitter or vengeful.

It can be tempting if your soon-to-be ex acts badly but you won’t regret that you didn’t stoop to that level.

2. Think about What You Want to Say before You Approach Him

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Breaking up with a man that’s still in love with you isn’t something you should do on a whim.

Make sure you take time to think this decision over and that it’s what you truly want.

If you’re sure it is then start thinking of the best way to tell him.2

The end goal is that you go your separate ways with as little bad feelings between you as possible.

3. Be Honest and Open with Him

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The best way to break up with someone is to do so honestly.

Don’t make up an excuse as to why you want out.

Be honest, be open and be ready for questions.

It’s very normal for someone to have questions when you want to end a relationship with them.2

That’s especially true if they didn’t see a breakup coming.

4. Be Truthful about What You See in the Future for the Two of You

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One of the questions your soon-to-be ex may ask you is what you see in the future for the two of you.

Be truthful.

Not only will he be able to sense your honesty but it’ll help him to move on more easily.

If you think you could possibly work things out and get back together at some point then share that.

If you know that only friendship or even just being casual acquaintances is what you want then it’s okay to state that.

If There’s a Reason, Be Sure to Tell Him
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