If you want a sex life to brag about, listen to what Thought Catalogue has to say. They've come up with a few little tricks you can use in the bedroom to really make your time worthwhile. Here they are:
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1. Have Sex in Pitch-black Darkness
This way, you'll have to rely on your other senses to guide you. Instead of seeing your partner's lips, you'll have to feel around for them. The mystery of it all can be incredibly satisfying.
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The absence of light heightens your other senses, making every touch and whisper even more intense. As you navigate through the darkness, anticipation builds, and each sensation is magnified. Your focus shifts entirely to the physical connection you share, allowing you both to explore and respond to the subtle cues of each other's bodies. This sensory deprivation can lead you to a much more intimate and primal experience, free from the distractions of the visual world. It's a way to rediscover your partner, creating a sense of novelty and excitement that can ignite passion in unexpected ways.
2. Keep Your Clothes on
You don't always have to rip off all of your clothes before having sex. If you keep some items on, you'll feel naughtier. Besides, you know what they look like naked, so you can still fantasize about it.
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3. Leave the Door (or Windows) Open
Your neighbors aren't going to peek through your windows, but the possibility of it happening can be a major turn on. It'll give you a rush of adrenaline that you don't normally feel.
4. Have Sex before You Go out
At the end of the night, you two might be too exhausted to get it on. That's why you should do it before you go out with your friends. Then you have a nice memory to think about while you're out.
5. Take Turns Narrating the Action
Voices can be a major turn on. That's why you should tell your partner exactly what you're going to do to him before you do it. You can even tell him what you want him to do to you.
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Voices can be a major turn on. That's why you should tell your partner exactly what you're going to do to him before you do it. You can even tell him what you want him to do to you. **This playful anticipation** builds up excitement and deepens your connection. *Slowly narrate each move* to create a tantalizing experience and add an element of suspense. By communicating your desires, you both become more attuned to each other's needs and fantasies. This simple act can turn an ordinary encounter into an intensely passionate and memorable moment. **Let your voices guide the way.**
6. Kiss Each Other Everywhere but the Lips
You shouldn't do this every night, but try it once in a while. If you're not "allowed" to kiss on the lips, your mouth will have to travel to other places. Then you'll touch parts of his body you never bothered with before.
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Your mouth will travel to other places. Imagine the thrill of kissing his neck, tracing your lips down his chest, or exploring the sensitive skin behind his ear. You'll discover new erogenous zones and create an element of surprise and excitement. This playful twist can heighten anticipation and amplify intimacy, breaking away from routine. It encourages both partners to pay closer attention to each other’s bodies, fostering a deeper connection. Next time, savor the anticipation and unleash the potential of every other kissable inch.
7. Commit to Post Sex Debriefing
After you have sex, question your partner. Ask him what his favorite and least favorite parts were. That way, you'll learn what he likes and can enhance your performance.
What other sex tips do you have?
Comments
Nancy: Works best btw with a dress or skirt. Just watch the wind.
Nancy: I used to go out with my boyfriend and when we got to our destination (restaurant, party, etc) I'd say "Damn! I forgot to wear my panties!" Rest of the night he was driven crazy. I didn't forget. A year later we were married.
Abhi: @Jennifer hyyy
CocoaV: I would do everhthing else....but leave the windows and door open...thats nasty lmfao. If someone walk in with a gun you gonna feel stupid and scared.
Ppppoo: Umberdiary number six is from this movie called superstar its on netflix
Courtney: Interesting, turn-on tips. ;)
Noopie: I totally agree haha 😛
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