7 Loyal Traits You Need in a Mate ...

Holly Jun 18, 2015

If you want to be a part of a long lasting relationship, you need to find a loyal partner. That way, you won't have to worry about whether or not he'll hurt you, because you'll know that you're the most important woman in his life. Of course, you should return the favor by being just as loyal to him as he is to you. In order to do that, first you have to find a mate with these important traits:

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1. He Won’t Cheat

Cheating is incredibly disrespectful. It's not only a sign that your partner isn't satisfied with your relationship, but it also shows that he doesn't care about your feelings. That's why you need to be with a man who would never dream of cheating on you. Try to stay away from the flirts whose intentions you'll constantly question. Find a man who loves you and only you, someone who wouldn't run off with even the prettiest girl who approached him.

2. He Won't Lie

A loyal man won't lie to you about where he's going or what time he has to work. He won't hide things from you either, whether it's the passcode to his phone or the memories of his past. He'll love and respect you enough to tell you the truth, even when he knows that you won't be happy with what he has to say.

3. He'll Stick up for You

If one of his friends makes a rude comment about you, will he defend you or let it slide? You don't want him to start unnecessary arguments, but you do want him to protect you when someone crosses the line. It shows that he cares about you and won't let anyone treat you poorly, because he knows you deserve the best treatment.

4. He'll Choose You over Everyone else

You don't want him to drop all of his friends, just because he has a girlfriend now. However, if he has to choose between watching a football game with his pals or taking you on a special date for your anniversary, you should come out on top. If you agree to be in a relationship, you have to be ready to put your partner first.

5. He'll Always Be There for You

A loyal man will be there for you when you're at your lowest point. Even if he's uncomfortable when you cry, he'll stick by your side and will comfort you the best he can. He's not only around during the good days. He's there for all the dark days, too.

6. He Won't Be Mean behind Your Back

You don't want to be with someone who's sweet to your face, but complains about you every time your back is turned. If your friends have heard him talking badly about you when you're not around, then something is wrong. If you find out what they're saying is true, your man isn't acting as loyal as he should be.

7. He Won't Take Advantage of You

Your man shouldn't try to pressure you into doing anything you don't want to do. If he takes advantage of you sexually or emotionally, then he's not the one for you. You need to be with someone who respects your morals, your opinions, and your decisions.

You deserve to be with someone who would never dream of hurting you. Does your man possess all of these loyal traits?

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Perfect summary of a great realationship. Well I'm not rushing for anything to happen if the perfect guy comes my way if he doesn't than oh well. I'm only 22 and I have a whole lifetime to be worrying about drama with men. But on the flip side I agree with you 100 percent

It sucks that I have a guy friend who has all of these traits plus we've been roommates for 2 years. The only difference is that I don't think he's interested. I don't think I'll be able to find anyone else like him :(

Got someone with this traits. my dad. God blessed us with a man like him.

No man is perfect , like us women they tend to make mistakes . ❤️

So many people are saying men like this don't exist😨! I like to believe that I have all these traits and wouldn't dream of hurting my boyfriend. And I am so grateful he is like this as well. What is the point of a relationship if you can expect loyalty?

Yeah if you are dating a robot then yeah!!! If you are dating a human man the the chances are he will slip up like you would.

Well, the point of having a relationship could be to have one woman you show the world, and one you keep to yourself! I probably seem very mistrustibg now, but I sometimes find it hard to put my trust in guys cause I've seen so much adultery in my life. Including my own parents! If anyone have any tips on not thinking like I put it in my first sentence, I'll gladly take them, cause I truly need them!

Turns out that he and I had been in a lot of the same places at the same time before we met. Our birthdays are five days apart. We have sons with the same first names, have relatives with same names, still hold hands, etc..and he is gorgeous! Don't five up ! He is out there..for you!!! Bless you all!

Ah I feel lucky! My boyfriend has these traits and I reciprocate the respect & trust. Ladies, if you don't believe there's men like this you are striking out!!

Good article and I love the photo at the top - Natalie Wood and Steve McQueen in Love With the Proper Stranger - so sweet.

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