7 Relationship Problems You Can Fix with Talking ...

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How many times do you hear or read that communication is important in a relationship?

Well, it’s no wonder because it is.

It’s super important.

Talking helps you understand each other and it’s only through communication that you can understand the problems in your relationship so you can take remedial action.

Some problems you can fix by changing the way you act, others you can fix by talking.

1. He Keeps Looking at Other Women when You Are around

Guess what, ladies?

He also looks at women when you are not around.

This is not a generalization.

Men are biologically programmed to look at other women because of the testosterone flowing through their body.

But, here is the upside.

Despite the fact he spends a few seconds every day looking at other women, it takes him just as long to forget about those women.

You may spend the rest of the day angry with your man because the woman he looked at has bigger boobs or better legs than you, but the fact is he cannot remember a thing about the women in question.2

This is one of the relationship problems you can fix with talking because all you have to explain to him is that you find it a little hurtful and disrespectful when he does it in front of you.

He will still do it, but he will rein it in a little more.

If he leers, then you have another problem, but innocently looking at other women (looking, not touching) will become less prevalent.

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Comments:

Domanique
I can't believe people keep fucking justifying porn! Just keep your mouth shut already!
Crystal
@Misssweetiejae maybe he watched many porn videos with the same woman, BEFORE he started dating u. He probably dated u bc u look like the lady on the screen, but u know what? We might never know, most men would never tell us they dated you bc the similarities
JP
Mssweetiejae, You deserve better and should expect better . . . An emotionally mature man would not disrespect you or any other woman by engaging in porn under any circumstances!! Ladies, respect and honor yourselves - don't settle for mediocrity!
Mssweetiejae
I'm kind of mutual with the porn thing. For girls, I don't know if you gals masturbate while in a relationship. For men, they have a stronger sex drive. It doesn't mean he's cheating on you or anything -at least he ain't doing with a girl. It's disrespectful but maybe the girl he's masturbating off kind of looks like you? Lls. I honestly wouldn't care unless we're in a serious relationship and I give him a lot of satisfaction and he still does this porn shit. Usually, I expect it from guys but it'd be disrespectful if I didn't expect it from another guy.
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