Are You Having Enough Sex?


What is enough sex? Is there even a measurement? Essentially, enough sex is an individual need and preference. There is no right number of times, no rules for how often except those personal to your wants and needs. Where it becomes generic, however, is in the ways how not having enough sex manifests itself and makes itself known. And these manifestations are not all obvious. Are you having enough sex? Here’s some food for thought:

1. Do You Pick Fights with Your Partner Because Part of You Enjoys It?

People pick fights with their partners for hundreds of reasons. That is not the issue here. You need to examine yourself introspectively and ask yourself if you started your last fight because part of you enjoys it. If you honestly looked inwards and decided that maybe you do enjoy (at least a little bit) starting an argument with your partner, the most common excuse women give is that they β€œlike drama.” That may be true for a small portion of women, but it could be because you are not getting enough sex. Starting arguments with your partner is very personal, intense, emotional, and a little exciting (a little like something else?). Some women substitute good sex with good arguments.

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Bottom line is everyone's sex drive is different! Mine is high and I cannot live without sex. For me personally sex is healthy and in a relationship even more so . If connects you in a way nothing else does and relaxes the mind too. .
@Tia Cheang I dont agree people can wait longer than 6 months befoe having sex,whenever they are comfortable is best. There is no time period for that, that should be considered toolong or too short. ...
No its not ok! Six months is too damn long without sex, especially if you have a partner.
Numbers two and three are the truth...
You can never have enough sex!
peony blue
@alka certainly girl certainly.
@peony blue. I totally agree! It is also natural for people to be inclined toward a lower or no sex drive.
peony blue
Oh please so disagree with five everyone is different.
I died laughing reading number 4 saying that if you havent mastrabated or had sex in six months to go see a professional. Hahahaha
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