When it comes to foreplay, my motto is that it is only ever worth it if you know exactly what you are doing, and the same goes for your partner! There is nothing worse than opening up to being intimate with someone, only to discover that they have absolutely no idea what they are doing! To make sure that this awkward fate never befalls you personally, here is a kind reminder of how to give a blowjob!
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1. Enthusiasm
Guys are so horny, pretty much all the time, that any type of contact with your sexy bits is going to be massively pleasurable to them! When it comes to giving them a good time down there, half the battle is just being as enthusiastic about the situation as you can. There aren’t that many secret techniques to learn - it’s a more a case of committing to the task of licking and sucking, but being very ‘into’ the process. The more wanted you can make him feel, the more pleasure he will feel.
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Your enthusiasm is the secret ingredient that can transform an average encounter into a toe-curling experience. Show eagerness and excitement with your eyes, sounds, and movements as you lavish attention on him. Remember, your passion is infectious—the more you're enjoying yourself, the more he'll tune into the pleasure. It's that genuine zeal and sincere enjoyment that can elevate your performance from mundane to mind-blowing. Trust in your own desire to pleasure him, and let that drive guide your pace, pressure, and persistency. He'll not only feel good, he'll feel craved, and that's incredibly hot.
2. Lube
Don’t make the mistake of not using lube. Sure, there is a minimal amount of wetness generated by your mouth, but why skimp? Everything slides and flows much easier when your man is lubed up, and the friction will be much more satisfying and pleasurable to him when there is no risk of soreness from rubbing any dryer areas. And of course, there are lots of types of flavoured lube that might make your end of the bargain a little more enjoyable too!
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3. Position
Have a real think about the position that you want to take up to give the blowjob, because that can be important both for you and for him. It can be easier for you if you have him either stand up and sit in an upright position, because is he is laying down, his penis will point up toward the ceiling and you will have to do more maneuvering yourself in order to get the best ‘mouthful’! If he is stood up, he will be able to do some thrusting of his for extra pleasure.
4. Tease Him
Don’t just throw yourself into it with that whole thing in your mouth from the first second. You can do a much better job of building up the tension and pleasure if you take your time and tease him. Make him wait, give it a few kisses, put the tip in your mouth, lick the shaft a little bit, work up to it until he is almost bursting before you get into the full swing of things!
5. Other Areas
The penis might be the main part of the process, but that doesn’t mean you should be ignoring other parts of him. Pay some focus and attention to his balls, his stomach, his inner thighs ... they are all erogenous zones that will be very sensitive to your touch and your mouth, so make it a whole body experience if you really want him to have the time of his life!
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Don't forget to use lubrication to make the experience more pleasurable. You can use flavored lubricants to make it even more enjoyable. Additionally, you can use your hands to stroke and caress other parts of his body, like his chest, arms, and neck. Make sure to give him lots of eye contact and compliments to let him know you're enjoying yourself. You can also use your tongue to lick and caress his body, focusing on sensitive areas like his nipples and inner thighs. Most importantly, take your time and enjoy the experience.
6. Hands
Remember to use your hands. It might be a blowjob, but that doesn't mean you can’t bring a touch of a handjob into the proceedings too! Essentially, the more sensations that he can feel thanks to your mouth and any other parts of your body, the more satisfied he will be!
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