If you are a young adult or older, and you are in the possession of a mobile phone, then I think it’s pretty safe to assume that you have participated in at least a little bit of sexting in your lifetime! Nothing beats face to face, body to body intimacy, but there is no doubting that getting flirty and a little hot and heavy over text messaging can be super fun from time to time. That is, of course, if you know what you are doing! There is nothing worse than trying to be sexy over text but getting it completely wrong, and it can sometimes be harder than you think! Here is how to sext according to your zodiac sign!
You like to get straight to the point. Don’t beat around the bush, tell him in detail exactly what you want him to do to you later on!
Directness is your signature approach, Aries, and this shines through in your sexting style. Be as vivid as you can—let your fiery energy come through with every word. Paint a bold picture of your desires that will set his imagination on fire. Remember, confidence is key, so throw in a challenge that you know will pique his interest. Dare him to match your level of openness, and watch the sparks fly as you both stoke the flames of anticipation for what's to come.
You are great at using the power of suggestion in a sensual way. Tell him that you had a crazy dream about him last night, but don’t reveal all the details!
Taureans are known for their deep sensuality and a strong sense of touch. Whisper about the velvet smoothness of your skin or the gentle trace of your fingers along an imagined path on his body. Indulge in rich descriptions of taste and aroma, perhaps the decadent chocolate you're savoring or the scent of roses that reminds you of him. Your words can craft a tactile experience so vivid, it's almost as if he can feel your presence. And remember, stay mysterious – the allure is in the unspoken promise of touch and closeness waiting just beyond the screen.
You are a master of dirty talk, so rather than asking him to do things to you, write a detailed description of everything that you are going to do to him instead!
Engage your Gemini wit and gift of gab, swirling it into a vortex of flirtatious innuendos and provocative promises. Imagine the words dancing off the screen, teasing and tempting with every typed temptation. As you concoct your textual seduction, pepper in questions that beg for his imagination to run wild alongside yours. Are you ready for what I've planned? Keep him guessing and wanting more, because for a curious Gemini, the mental chase is just as thrilling as the physical one.
You can be quite shy in real life, so start off slow by saying something like you can’t stop thinking about him. Hopefully, this will lead to some more saucy sentences.
As a Cancer, you're all about emotions and creating a deep connection. Once you've broken the ice with that initial message, let your nurturing side shine through with sexts that show you care, like "I'd love to make you feel as incredible as you make me." Gradually unfold your layers of intimacy by sharing your fantasies, describing how you'd tenderly touch them, or how their touch would make you feel. Use your intuitive nature to gauge their responses and steer the conversation deeper, adding a sprinkle of daring as you grow more comfortable – think, “I'm imagining your hands exploring me... every inch.”
You always like to be the centre of attention, so your go-to plan is always to get him to tell you what he is going to do you, so you can read and soak up the sexiness!
Leo is the fifth sign of the zodiac and is symbolized by the lion. People born under the sign of Leo are known for their fiery passion, strong will, and love of the spotlight. When it comes to sexting, Leos tend to be very confident and bold. They like to take the lead and be in control, so when it comes to sexting, they prefer to dictate the conversation.
Leos are also very passionate and romantic. They enjoy being the center of attention and love to be showered with compliments and compliments. As such, when it comes to sexting with a Leo, it’s important to make sure that you’re giving them plenty of attention and compliments. They love to be told how sexy they are and how much you desire them.
Leos also enjoy teasing and flirting, so don’t be afraid to be a bit playful and suggestive. They love to be challenged and will appreciate it if you can come up with clever and creative ways to turn them on.
You are a perfectionist, so your sexting isn’t sloppy, it is factual and to the point, almost like a dominatrix!
Your meticulous nature ensures every message is well-thought-out, with impeccable grammar and punctuation to boot. You're not one to send raunchy photos right off the bat; instead, you build anticipation through a series of carefully crafted, teasing texts. As a Virgo, you may even offer suggestions for improvement in your partner's technique, merging constructive criticism with flirtatious charm. However, always remember that a touch of spontaneity can add heat to the moment, so don't be afraid to let go of that control every now and then.
You like to start things off right from the moment you wake up, so a spot of morning sexting is always your go to. Tell him you woke up thinking about him.
For you, balance is key, Libra, and you know it's just as important in your sexting game. Diplomatic and charming, weave those qualities into your messages by showering your partner with affectionate words and suggesting harmonious fantasies. But don't forget the power of anticipation. A suggestive photo with a teasing caption "Can't wait for you to see the rest..." will keep them on their toes, reflecting your indecisive nature as you keep them guessing what's on your mind. Your ability to maintain harmony makes for a titillating digital dance that's all about equal give and take.
You love to evoke suspense, so you’ll hint at things to come for him later on, but you will never go and outright say it over a message.
Mystery is your calling card, Scorpio, and your sexting strategy follows suit. You deftly play between the lines of seduction and secrecy, leaving traces of desire with your carefully chosen words. Perhaps you'll tantalize with a veiled reference to a shared secret or a past encounter that leaves him aching for more. Your innate intensity can heat up the conversation without a single explicit detail – just a promise of the passion that lies in wait, always simmering just beneath the surface.
You are completely in control of your own sexuality, and as a result, your sexting turns in to some sort of command list of what is going to happen later, whether he likes it or not! (spoiler alert, he definitely will!)
Sagittarius, your fiery spirit and adventurous soul shine through in your sexting style. With Jupiter as your ruling planet, you exude confidence, optimism, and a thirst for life that is contagious and alluring. Your texts are often sprinkled with humor and spontaneity, making your partner eager with anticipation. Seize the moment through your messages, and your partner will be absolutely spell-bound, counting down the seconds until they can experience your wild ideas in person. After all, with a Sagittarius, an adventure is always guaranteed – and in the game of love, you play to win.
You love to let your stubborn side out in sexting, withholding the goodies from him until he is essentially begging for it and frothing at the mouth!
Capricorn, your strategic nature shines through in your sexting style. You're not afraid to play a little game of digital cat and mouse, teasing with words like a chess master maneuvering the board. You know the power of anticipation and use it to your advantage, crafting messages that are both a challenge and a promise, leading to an irresistible buildup of tension. Perfectly calculated, your sexts leave them desperate for the next move, ensuring that when you finally give in, it's a climactic moment of near-mythic proportions.
You are a playful leader, always dictating the conversation but making him think like he is making the decisions. “Do you want to join me in the shower?”, “Do you want to this certain thing to me?”.
You know how to blend flirtation with a sprinkle of fantasy, Aquarius. Engage your partner with enticing scenarios: "What would you do if I were there with you, right now?" Tease ideas and let your partner's imagination run wild. Remember, your charm lies in subtlety and intellect. Share a clever, seductive riddle and watch them puzzle over the tantalizing possibilities. This dance of the minds amplifies the physical excitement, and you excel at keeping it both sizzling and smart.
You are a detail-oriented person, so your best play is to get him to describe his wildest fantasies in as much detail as possible so you can try to recreate them.