There could be quite a few reasons why you're afraid to commit to a relationship. He’s a perfect man for you. He is tall, handsome, works as a doctor, treats you well, has a lovely smile…. So let's examine the fear of commitment. He likes you, but you are too afraid to say YES to him. Here are a few reasons why you're afraid to commit to a relationship.
1 YOU ARE AFRAID to MOVE from YOUR COMFORT ZONE
When we are too comfortable in our single life, it’s can be hard for us to let it go. We feel safe on our own. It scares us because after this there will be someone new in our life and apart from ourselves we have to take care of them as well.
2 YOU ARE AFRAID HE MIGHT NOT like YOU
After all this time, someone likes you a lot. But it scares you because he hasn’t seen enough of you. What if he dislikes the little things about you that make you unique? Getting to know him is the only way to find out for sure.
3 YOU ARE out of the GAME TOO LONG
He makes a move on you. But you freeze up because you don’t know what to do as it’s been awhile since your last relationship. You might be afraid that if you did something, he might think it’s weird.
4 YOU AFRAID of LOSING HIM
You have been in a relationship before and it ended. It broke your heart and it took you months to recover. You are overjoyed when your crush confess that he likes you, but you are too scared about the future. What if he breaks up with you like your previous relationship? You are afraid that you will get hurt again.
5 HE is NOT the ONE
Everyone says that he is the perfect guy for you. And you like him too… but you keep on thinking what if he is not the one? What if the right guy for you still out there searching for you? What if you make the wrong decision?
6 HE HAS FLAWS
Everyone has flaws, but perhaps you keep yourself busy searching out his flaws. Even if the flaws that you are talking about sound ridiculous to everyone else.
7 YOU ARE AFRAID of COMMITMENT
Having a relationship means you are committed to a guy and you are bound to love him with all your heart. Both of you are responsible for keeping the relationship strong. The reason you are still single may be because you are too afraid of commitment.
8 HE DOESN’T like YOUR FAMILY
You are too afraid that he will not like you anymore after he knows about your family. What will he think of my family? Will he leave me if he meets my family? Maybe. But you won't know until you give it a chance.
These behaviors could be why you're having trouble finding a lasting commitment. Examine your motives and then you might be ready to meet a man.
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