There is no doubting that sex is fun, but something that isn’t so fun is when you don’t get to achieve a massive orgasm at the end of it, or perhaps you don’t get to give your partner the kind of climax that you were hoping! When it comes to positions, it’s fair to say that they aren’t all created equally in terms of encouraging the easiest and best climax. The best part of this conundrum is that the practising part of the equation is still extremely pleasurable; practise makes perfect after all! Here are five sex positions to give him a mind-blowing orgasm.
It’s a well known fact that if you restrict one sense, your body compensates for it by heightening all of the others. Pick whichever position you want for this one, but the important thing is for you to put a blindfold on your man so that his sense of touch gets a boost. There is something sexy about the lack of knowing what might be coming next and he will be putty in your hands!
Using a blindfold not only enhances the tactile sensations but also allows for a play of power dynamics. The anticipation and mystery that comes with not being able to see can drive his desire to new heights. By guiding his touches or teasing him with unpredictable movements, you create an intense build-up that's all about exploration and sensation. It's about taking control and leading him towards a peak of sensory indulgence he'd not be able to experience otherwise. Plus, it adds an element of surprise and variety, key ingredients for an unforgettable encounter.
This one is called the fun factory because it aims to build up the sensations and arousal stage by stage. Set the tone right with soft music and scented candles, and start off with light touching and work your way up to the big event. The orgasm will build up inside him much stronger if you allow the time.
Imagine the Fun Factory as a playground for the senses, where anticipation is the main thrill. Engage in playful whispers and gentle strokes that hint at what's to come. Gradually increase the intensity of your touch, teasing and exploring new areas to heighten his desire. By gradually building up the tension, you're paving the way for a deeply satisfying climax that's been crafted with care, much like an artisan bringing a masterpiece to life with each deliberate and passionate brush stroke.
Provide him with as much sexual stimulation as you can, and that might often involve putting on a sexy movie in the background for both of your benefits! Having a little pornographic inspiration going on over your shoulders can inspire you to try lots of new and different things that can lead to much bigger orgasms than plain old missionary style!
In this equation, you are the present, and it is his task to unwrap his gift in the most sensual and sexy way possible! Put on your best little black dress and make sure to have your sexiest lingerie underneath. The act of undressing you and taking his time will build his arousal and make his orgasm all the better when it finally arrives!
Engage in playful banter and provide little hints about what’s waiting for him beneath the layers. Encouraging him to take his time in unwrapping you allows for prolonged anticipation, which can heighten sensory experiences for both of you. Teasing touch and seductive whispers as each piece is removed not only escalates the sexual tension but also focuses his senses on the present moment and the excitement of the reveal. The slowness of this erotic unwrapping can intensify the connection and lead to an explosive climax.
Having sex in the spoon position can be really satisfying and intimate because you have the body contact of a close, loving hug whilst also doing the thrusts that can send pleasure through the entirety of your body! Not only will he be getting his penetrative kicks, but this position also gives him free reign to put his hands all over your body. It’s pretty much the dream position!