5 Small Things to Do Together to Strengthen Your Relationship

1. Shower/Bathe Together

Obviously, not every single time as this just isn’t possible, but having a shower or bath together is a really nice thing to do. Light some candles, wash each other, and take a moment to unwind together, which can set the stage for deeper physical intimacy later on. You will feel closer to each other in no time. This is one of my favorite small things to do together to bring you closer as a couple.

2. Go for a Walk

Winter walks are the best, so wrap up warm and go out for a lovely scenic walk. Holding hands and snuggling together as you walk feels great and brings you together. You can even discover new local paths using resources like AllTrails to make your outdoor strolls an exciting routine. Taking a peaceful walk together also offers a great opportunity for uninterrupted conversations away from home.

3. Have Sex

There are different types of sex – quick, kinky, romantic… it doesn’t really matter though because it’s such an intimate activity that it brings you physically and emotionally closer as a couple. Prioritizing intimate physical connection helps keep your bond strong through every season of life.

4. Talk without Distractions

You can talk to your partner all the time, but you may be doing the washing or watching TV – cut out the distractions and just talk. Research from experts at The Gottman Institute emphasizes that focused, attentive communication is key to lasting relationship quality. My partner and I can lie in bed for hours and just talk about all sorts of things – not just day-to-day things but experiences we’ve had and how we’ve felt about things. It’s an amazing thing to do to get closer.

Here are a few quick tips for distraction-free conversations:

5. Cuddle

Cuddling gives you feelings you can’t explain, a sort of warm glow. According to articles on Healthline, regular physical touch releases oxytocin, which naturally lowers stress and increases feelings of trust. It’s an emotional thing that is so basic, but simple moments like cuddling together really make you feel closer to your partner, and when you hold each other, it just feels right.