You can't find the right one if you don't let go of the wrong one ! Move on ladies there's plenty more fishes in the sea don't settle for less than you deserve !!

As long as the two are willing to work on it I see no problem. To each it's own

Sidenote: it took me 2 years to completely leave my ex alone. Best decision I've made. I could tell he hadn't fully changed in almost 3 years. Sad, but reality is people don't change over night.

I have recently got back with my ex boyfriend, we have been together since April and spilt up 5 years ago! It was a very messy breakup with a lot of heartache, but I can honestly say I've never been happier! We have both changed so much and have got together for all the right reasons. I'm not saying it would work for everyone, but it's working pretty well for us. I think all relationships are different and all have problems, it's just about respect and understanding.

have some standards, you broke up for a reason, we move forward not back.

I support Karen's stand 100%!

I am a firm believer in leaving your past alone. I believe the past should only be reflected upon to realize how far you've come. We all deserve to be loved, and your ex may be that one. Chances are if it ended before, what will stop it from ending again...you both already have the capacity to walk away from each other. With time comes growth, so grow and leave lost time behind. To each it's own as Yvonne has stated.

I split from my ex in feb he said he didn't want me. I was getting over him when he came back on the scene it turned out he'd been in contact with his ex,he told me he loved me and wanted to be with me He promised he wouldn't do it again. But lo and behold 3 weeks ago he did it again I was devasted as I put my faith and trust in him. It now turns out that he had been in contact with his ex again and been talking to her when we were together. He says he's in love with the both of us. I have my children to co udder and as much as he means to me I'm not going there again I deserve that fairy tale ending the same as everyone else. And to anyone out there never go back to your ex.

It breaks my heart to hear of women tht are subject to the type of man tht cheats and comes back when it's convenient like you're the flavor of the month. I've been in quite a few relationships but nvr nvr take a man back if he cheats on you. He will nvr change this is who he is. He will nvr love you as much as he loves himself. Men like tht are nvr satisfied. Always looking for something else. You deserve btr! It's always btr to be alone than in bad company. Once you're happy single by yourself you'll attract a btr kind of man. Nvr go back to an ex it didn't work for a reason. #Not worth it!