When the holiday season comes around we think about what heart warming, thoughtful, and touching gifts we can get for our partner. We don't want them to just toss the gift aside and think nothing of it, we want them to love and enjoy it. Janelle from Inward Oasis™ is back with us today to share her ideas for 6 Unique Gift Ideas for Your Partner that are sexy, intimate, and honoring...
Make the Holidays Special...
The holiday season is upon us once again. It seems that more people than not buy gifts for the holidays. Yet, sometimes it gets to be a hassle. We can get into a rut when it comes to buying gifts. We buy the same stuff over and over again. Where is the excitement? What are you planning to buy your partner this year? Another sweater? Another tie? Another bottle of cologne or perfume? Or the dreaded package of new cotton underwear?
Okay, so maybe he/she needs these things, but what about spicing things up? Give your partner something hot and sexy that he/she never expected. Share a very intimate moment in which the two of you can deepen your bond. Honor your beloved by helping others.
Sexy Challenges are exciting scenarios for couples to experience new, creative, and fun ways to rekindle and enhance their passion. Each challenge explains what you as a couple will need and offers suggestions of places to experience the challenge. They are available on iTunes, the Kindle or the Nook. You could even consider picking up a new Kindle Fire and loading it up with some sexy challenges….that would really light your partner’s “fire”. Sexy Challenges are going like hotcakes right now on iTunes. They have even made it to #2 under Family and Relationships!!
Would you rather not give such a hot and sexy gift to your partner? Then consider Intimate Adventures: Sacred Ceremonies for Couples. These ceremonies and rituals can help you transform your relationship and your life. They help you learn how to bring spirituality into your relationships whether or not you are religious or spiritual. Some will bring the spiritual into your sexual relationship while others bring the spiritual into your emotional intimacy. We are all spiritual beings; therefore, connecting to our Souls and Spirit can create a great difference in our lives. These exercises, reaching #3 on iTunes, help you and your partner continually grow and expand as individuals and as a couple. These are also available for the Kindle and the Nook.
There are numerous organizations that you can make a charitable donation to in honor of someone. There are organizations that help impoverished or less fortunate families outside of the U.S. by allowing you to gift the family with a flock of chicks, a pig, a sheep or a variety of other animals. There are other organizations that offer you different ways to help protect animals around the world such as wolves, dolphins, or polar bears. Then you get a card or a small gift that you are to give to the person you are honoring by donating this wonderful gift. You could also donate locally and create your own “honor card” to give to the person you honored. This is a very unique and heart-warming gift idea.
If you and your partner enjoy sensual additions to your intimate play such as adult toys, then consider purchasing a new one for your partner as a holiday gift. You can wrap it in special paper and make plans to share it on Christmas Eve or late one night around your holidays. If you don’t have kids in the house, you could sneak one into your partner’s Santa stocking ;) Lingerie works well too – whether it is for you to wear or for your partner.
The holidays can be quite hectic. Gifting your partner with a massage either from you or from a professional massage therapist is a very loving and intimate gift. Of course, it would be more intimate if you actual do the massage, but paying for a professional therapeutic massage is wonderful too. You could offer a personal massage after all the hustle and bustle of the holiday is over and still pay for a professional massage too. I am willing to bet your partner will be grateful.
This gift idea can be sexy, intimate and honoring all in one. You can get tickets or make reservations to a romantic retreat or some place that both of you would really enjoy going. The alone time can be spent in a variety of ways of course. You can easily make it sexy by packing lingerie or sexy attire, a sexy challenge on your reading device, or take toys. You can make it intimate by planning a romantic dinner, a walk on the beach or sitting by a crackling fire, doing a sacred couples’ ceremony or just having heart-to-heart talks. The whole idea honors both you and your partner.
© 2011 Janelle Alex, Ph.D., Co-Founder of Inward Oasis™. Globally Awakening Couples to Their Blended Spirit. Relationship is a spiritual path. Are you aware of yours?
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