10 Ways People Fall in Love ...

10 Ways People Fall in Love ...
By Holly • Jan 5, 2022

Cupid's arrow might hit you when you least expect it. After all, love is a funny thing. Some people see it coming from a mile away, but others are struck with feelings out of the blue. You'll never know which way it'll happen to you, which is why love is so exiting! Here are all of the different ways that people can fall in love:

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1. Love at First Sight

Love at First Sight From the first moment you see him, you'll know that there's something special about him. You might not realize that he's the person you're meant to marry, considering you two haven't even said hello yet. But there's something intriguing about him that makes you wonder if he's the right man for you. It won't take long until you figure out that your predictions were correct.

2. Friends First

Friends First Sometimes, two people will be friends for years before they realize that they should date. One day, they won't have any feelings for each other. The next day, it'll all change. They'll start to look at each other in a new way, and they might fall in love before they even go on their first date, because they already know each other so well.

3. Enemies to Lovers

Enemies to Lovers You've seen this time and time again in movies, and it occasionally happens in real life. It's when you can't stand the thought of looking at your friend's brother--until one day, you can't stop thinking about kissing him. After all, there's a fine line between love and hate. Once you push your stubbornness aside, you'll realize that he's actually an amazing guy that would treat you right.

4. They Date

They Date This is the most common way for a person to fall in love. It's when you date someone that you're interested in, and slowly develop feelings for them over time. After a few months, or even years, you'll realize that you're in love with them. And then you'll live happily ever after.

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5. Forced to Develop Feelings

Forced to Develop Feelings In some cultures, marriages are arranged. That means a woman doesn't get to choose whom she's going to marry, so she's pretty much stuck with whomever her parents think is best for her. Of course, some women get lucky and learn to love the person they've been set up with.

6. Major Crush

Major Crush You might fall in love with him years before he falls for you. You could have a major crush on him and daydream about having his babies, but assume that he'll never feel the same. However, one day he'll realize that you exist and you two can start your love story.

7. Realizes after the Fact

Realizes after the Fact You might date a guy, have the time of your life with him, and then dump him. It's not until you date the next guy that you realize your ex is the person you really, truly love. Sometimes, you need to see how bad a boyfriend can be before you realize how amazing your ex was to you. Hopefully, he won't be "the one who got away" and you'll be able to reunite before it's too late.

8. Head over Heels

human action, person, kiss, nose, romance, This is the love that comes out of nowhere. It's a super sudden and intense emotion but is completely justified when you reflect back on how you got here.

9. Slowly but Surely

black, black and white, person, monochrome photography, monochrome, This love cannot be pinpointed to a certain event because it develops slowly over time. However, this may be the most real of loves because you're 100% sure this is the person you were meant to spend your life with and you know they feel the same.

10. Cautiously

human action, hair, person, nose, mouth, Those that have been hurt in the past can appreciate and relate to the cautious love. They make sure it's real before fully giving themselves to another person because they're aware of the pain that can come if they aren't certain of their own or the other persons feelings.

Love is complex. It can happen at any time and in any place, and you'll never be prepared for it. Are you in love? Did it happen in any of these ways?

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  • Ravina

    2015-11-07T23:02:59.884Z

    number 5, arranged does not mean forced . Get your facts right first .
  • Umberdiary

    2015-11-07T22:33:48.768Z

    It's always love at first sight for me
  • Scarlett

    2015-11-07T21:04:13.612Z

    Wow, I needed this.
  • Mai

    2017-01-24T22:34:56.055Z

    I love this article and this happened to me we dated and have been in a relationship for one year
  • Steph5

    2015-11-11T22:32:02.882Z

    My ex from 4 years ago and I have gotten back into contact with each other. Our relationship back then was everything I was hoping for, as was he, the timing just wasn't right. We've stayed on great terms throughout the years, and now I think that the timing might be better, and I think we both want to start seeing each other again, we're just shy to admit it at the moment. I'm hoping that in time we'll be able to reconnect, and I think he's thinking the same :)
  • Vanessa

    2015-11-07T22:46:46.197Z

    Haha love the Lost theme
  • Ally

    2015-11-08T00:39:27.630Z

    My current is a combo of 2 and 3
  • Mj1994

    2015-11-07T22:44:34.657Z

    Good article over time but #4=western superiority complex
  • Jules

    2015-11-08T13:40:37.592Z

    You can also fall in love with people's messages. A guy I went to school with started Facebook 'poking' me, we started messaging, and actually fell in love with each other before we (re)met 4 months later. He lives two and a half hours away from me, and it's not been easy, but a year on I'm thinking of moving to be with him. 'Happy ever after'? We'll see. But I do know I love him more than anything, over 7000 pokes later!
  • hey

    2015-11-08T08:02:57.427Z

    When you experience love at first sight there's nothing intriguing and you don't question if it's the right person for you. It is the right person for you because anyway you can't live without them. When you experience love at first sight you recognise the feeling and understand the expression right away :)
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