Old Fashioned ⌛️ Dating Traditions We Should Keep Using ...

Old Fashioned ⌛️ Dating Traditions We Should Keep Using ...
By Cris • Mar 6, 2021 MD

We're in an era where modernity has changed the way romantic dates are done. In this post, we look back at old-fashioned dating traditions and share thoughts about why we think today's dating crowd should still practice them. Here they are:

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1. Picking up the Girl at Her House

Wow,, you, really, went, all, Remember rom-com movies in the '80s and the '90s when the guy actually picks up the girl at her parents' house? Old fashioned? Maybe... But this time-tested tradition has that "official" feel to it knowing that the guy actually took time and effort to go to the house and 'start' the date from there. Sure, there's nothing wrong with the let's-meet-at-the-theatre-around-seven set-up but admit it, having to open the door for someone to take you out to dinner is right up on the list of exciting things to expect on a first date and... the succeeding dates too!

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2. Asking Permission from the Parents

person, screenshot, interaction, I'd, like, Once upon a time, the man was expected to ask permission from the woman's parents so he could take her out to dinner. The entire itinerary of the date is discussed with the father and a curfew is set for him to take her back home in one piece. To some people, this may be too strict but hey, it worked during those times!

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3. Calling Her on the Landline Phone

leg, Back when there were no smart phones and social media was non-existent, guys called girls in their landline phones. Sweaty palms and shaky voice characterize the nervous caller as the other line rings and he waits for someone to pick up the phone. If he's lucky, then the girl herself answers the phone. If fate plays tricks on him, then he needs to brace himself as the girl's father interrogates him about the purpose and intention of the call.

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4. Giving Her Flowers and Chocolates

person, hairstyle, singing, ILLYMUGGL, We're pretty sure chivalry is not yet dead. We're also sure that there are men who still gives flowers and chocolates to the women they like and love but... certainly not in a way that the men of bygone years handed flowers and chocolates to the subjects of their affection. How many of you received flowers and chocolates from your suitors or admirers?

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5. Spending Time on Weekends with Her Family

, The getting-to-know-you stage wasn't all about movie dates, it actually involved the guy visiting the girl on weekends and spending time with her family. "Getting to know you" was a family affair. It definitely took a lot of guts from the guy to step inside uncharted territory!

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6. Paying Respect to Her Grandparents

performing arts, dance, entertainment, sports, musical theatre, And then there's Grandpa and Grandma, whose significant presence in the family tree cannot be discounted. Suitors were not told to bring gifts, but it was considered impolite to disregard them especially when the girl grew up in a close-knit family.

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7. Writing Love Letters for Her on Scented Paper

finger, art, hand, nail, What can be more old fashioned than love letters handwritten on scented paper, sealed and sent with a kiss? These days feelings are easily expressed through quotes and status posts but back in the days when pen and paper were the mighty forms of communication, writing letters was one of the best expressions of love and those letters were cherished wholeheartedly by their recipients.

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8. Turning off or IgnoRing Electronics with Her

black, black and white, photograph, man, photography, There's nothing worse than being on a date and having them answer their phone and start a conversation, or worse, not even hearing what you said because they're so wrapped up in a text. Instead of spending the date on your phones, tuck them away (unless it's an emergency) and give the other person your full and undivided attention.

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9. OpenIng Doors for Your Date

blond, mouth, screenshot, Did, you, A lost chivalrous act in my opinion! A guy who opens restaurant, building, and car doors for his date. Any girl is sure to notice a guy who does this since it seems to be a dead act but definitely not one that doesn't have thought behind it! It's sweet and caring in my opinion and wish it happened more often.

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10. Be Clear on Feelings

action film, screenshot, have, feelings., got, AHH! The dreaded "What are we?" conversation! If more people were clear and asked some type of "going steady" question instead of "just talking" or "hanging out", we could avoid this awkward situation all together and be on the same page like they used to be!

Any old fashioned dating tradition that you experienced recently?

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Where Thoughts and Opinions Converge

  • alka

    2015-11-01T22:39:38.911Z

    @Kris should you really be judging when you forgot a period!!!!
  • Kris

    2015-11-02T20:28:07.659Z

    Taylor, I deal with disability issues 24/7. There is no excuse for poorly written articles on this web site...or any other, for that matter.
  • MOAK

    2015-11-01T20:21:19.251Z

    The second thing about the boyfriend asking for permission is sexist.This tradition seems to me to emply that women can't take responsibility for themselfs but need men to take resbonsibility for them. (Their fathers and their boyfriends) i think it must be up to the girl to decide wether or not she wants to go on a date or not:) but lovely theme on the post😊
  • Sev

    2015-11-02T02:25:36.530Z

    I like a lot of these traditional things, but the calling the house phone and the spending time with the family on the first few dates is very teenage only. At my age if I brought a guy to my parents for my first date everybody would be going "why did you bring him when you hardly know him". I also don't have a landline. But the picking the date up is hard, especially with online dating or safety concerns I wouldn't want everyone I went on a first date with to know my address without knowing them. A lot of the older traditions are based on being in a tight knit town where everyone knows everyone and safety wasn't as big of a risk as it is now.
  • Taylor

    2015-11-02T03:32:51.874Z

    Yeah you are older...doesn't mean you gotta be a mean grumpy troll to everyone. You presenting yourself like that doesn't make anyone on here fond of you. Times change, we can't live in the past anymore. Like @Sev is saying. Sure this could work for teens but that was never suggested in the article. Implying for adults. If your talking about people with disabilities, then obviously you should take that in mind. Also just because you may be older, doesn't mean your above anyone else. Everyone has the right to 'present' themselves in ways that you may not like. I don't live to make you happy
  • Kris

    2015-11-02T20:39:46.751Z

    Lily, I suspect I'm old enough to be your mother. Show a little respect your elders!
  • Kris

    2015-11-06T01:06:07.122Z

    I never said dyslexia was laziness, but the VAST MAJORITY of those who criticize me for being a "grammar Nazi" have yet to show me anything that changes the facts. It has been proven that first impressions are the most lasting, and that sloppy presentation does NOT add to one's credibility. I will comment on any site I want, any way I want. Correct your work or risk being criticized. That's the risk you take when you post sloppy work.
  • Steph5

    2015-11-15T06:53:23.458Z

    I am such a hopeless old fashioned romantic... I'm waiting for a guy to treat me with this much respect.
  • Ramsay

    2015-11-02T23:14:01.097Z

    God, I wish they did that.
  • E

    2015-11-01T22:13:55.291Z

    I love talking on the phone for hours with my boyfriend, and having him pick me up for dates! Flowers too!
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