I highly doubt he’s cheating “because of some other woman.” A person is less likely to cheat when they are in a strong and healthy relationship. If your relationship is strong and healthy, you probably wouldn’t have a cheating partner. This question is one of the best ways to get a cheater to stop cheating.

Focus on ways you can make your relationship stronger. Make your relationship better. Find ways to improve it. Do everything you can to make yourself desirable and magnetizing. He should want you naked, not her. But don’t fall into the trap of asking questions. Which leads to the third point.

Whether you know it or not, asking about the other woman will not improve your situation in any way. Curing your curiosity will do just that, it will answer your questions, but it won’t change anything, it won’t make anything any better. Furthermore, if he answers your questions, it will not make him feel guilty, it will actually bring him relief. The last thing you want to do is provide a cheater any form of relief. He should feel guilty about it. Diminish the other woman by making her seem like a nobody. Give her no time of your day. Don’t compare yourself to her.

Do these three things and you’ll know when you’re successful because the other woman will disappear. Your partner will make you his one and only, he will choose to remove the third-wheel on his own. And he will do so without feeling like he’s merely following your orders.

Strengthen, strengthen, strengthen, until the other person fades away. Then you won’t only have his body, but you’ll have his mind and his heart too.