Some women are told that they're too picky, even though they're just looking for a decent man. However, you should never lower your standards. After all, you're not picky for wanting these things in a relationship:
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1. Someone Who Listens
You're not boring, so your man shouldn't think that you are. He should enjoy listening to what you have to say.
2. Someone Who Likes You for More than Sex
You aren't a sex object, so you shouldn't be treated like one. You need to find someone who likes your personality, and not just your body.
3. Someone Who Doesn’t Go MIA
Your man shouldn't pick and choose when to answer your text messages. You deserve to have someone who's always there for you, no matter what.
4. Someone Who Will Make Time for You
He should want to spend time with you. Even if his schedule is jam packed, he should find the time to see you.
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5. Someone Who Will Tell You How They Feel
You deserve to hear those three little words. That's why you need a man who isn't going to run from his feelings.
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6. Someone Who Will Spend Time with Your Family
A good boyfriend won't mind being introduced to your friends and family. In fact, he'll be excited about it, because it means that you two are serious.
7. Someone Who Will Buy You Little Gifts
He doesn't have to buy you diamonds, but he shouldn't forget your birthday or anniversary, either.
8. Someone Who Will Compromise with You
He shouldn't be the only one to get his way. He should be willing to compromise with you, so that you're both happy.
9. Someone Who Doesn’t Flirt around
You should be the only woman in his life. If he can't keep it in his pants, then he doesn't deserve someone as amazing as you.
10. Someone Who Likes You as Much as You like Him
You shouldn't be the one who loves more. Your love should be equal.
11. Someone Who Compliments You
You don't need to be told you're beautiful five times a day. However, he should never make you think that you're unattractive.
12. Someone Who Will Make You Feel Special
He should make you feel like the luckiest girl on the planet. If he doesn't, then you should find someone who does.
13. Someone Who Commits to You
Some men are afraid of commitment. However, if he really likes you, he should push that fear aside in order to spend his life with you.
14. Someone Who Will Never Say Mean Things to You
It doesn't matter how angry he is. It's unacceptable for him to call you names and make you feel like crap.
15. Someone Who Will Comfort You
He shouldn't run away whenever you show emotion. He should be there to comfort you when you cry.
16. Someone Who Won't Judge You
He shouldn't judge you for the career path you want tot take. He shouldn't judge you for your love of Selena Gomez, either.
17. Someone Who Will Spend the Rest of Their Lives with You
He should be thankful for the chance to spend the rest of his life with you. It should be his greatest accomplishment.
Never settle for less than you deserve. Have you been called picky in the past?
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Comments
Kranti: If we can not love ourselves unconditionally then how can we expect someone else to do that for us.
Ramen: Great points. Need more articles like this from what women deserve and not always how we should please the men.
Kylee: This was such a sweet article!
Dreamawaywme: Lol r u kidding me? These are obvious basic qualities that needs to be mutual in a relationship to even be possible in the first place
Splashhhh: Yep! I think its evryones right
Camille: Love can't be equal! Never... When a couple love each other, there's always one whose love is a bit less or a bit much..
Ramya: Need more tips from u n ur articles r too good
Kranti: What a human needs is an unconditional love...how mother loves us. It’s always nice to have someone else (irrespective of age or gender of the person) to love you unconditionally but it’s necessary that we love ourselves unconditionally.
Kranti: There is no doubt that every human needs unconditional love but not everyone is so lucky to have it. But God has gifted everyone that opportunity to learnt to love oneself. The one who makes most of that will have best of it.
Dianisv: But nowadays seems so hard to find those qualities en men. Evetything is so disposable! :( dont know up to what point we have to let pass some of them. :(
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